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Well due to some recent screw ups that I've made, I've decided to make an advice column to help those who have made some bad choices, or just plainly put, need help. So, please, feel free to ask whatever's on your mind, hopefully I can not only help you, but learn from what you're going through too. Thanks. -Jordan
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Okay heres my story...
I like this guy. Lets call him Jon. He likes me as well... We only knew eachother for like maybe 2 weeks at the most but i sat with him at that table everyday at lunch and in the morning b4 classes start. Anyways.... Last friday we went on a double date with my friend and his friend... Well both of our friends...
Besides the point. We had a great time. At first we went to dinner then played pool for a while then we were supposed to go to a movie but we didnt so we went bowling instead. Well that was alot of fun. Everyday we smile at eachother and talk sometimes but i never know what to talk about around him. What do i talk about? Then when the techers get back from tech (he's one) i always leave homeroom 10 minutes early to see him. I know it's sweet to some people but is it right for me to do that? Im seriously inlove with this guy!! This weekend he's supposed to come over to my house Saturday night so i can see him b4 i go to Punxitauwnii, Clearfield to go hunting for 2 days. So i wont be able to see him Sunday or Monday. Im skippin school.
What should i do with him? Should i make a move or wait for him? I know i need to talk to him more.. Becuase everyday he talks to this girl (i think her name is Jessica) and says like how much he likes me and stuff like that. I mean hes really sweeeetttt!!!! But he also says that i need to talk to him more. I know things about him but not that much. And i reallly want to get to know him more.
Could something happen Saturday night?
What do i talk to him about?
Please give me advice... I'll try anything!! lol
Im seriouslt Happy but Dont know what to do!!!
CEC
Awwww, most crushes start out like that. Where you can't get enough of him. But if he says you need to talk to him more, you're doing the right hting by hanging out with him. When you talk to him don't worry so much. Start with casual comments like "I like your shirt" or "What are you doing later?" If you run out of things to say, just tell him that you have to get going to your next class, or whatever and you'll talk to him later. DOn't get too obsessed where you go to every one of his classes. While this is all sweet and showing that you care, he might think it's odd or that you need to lay off.
As for Saturday, don't plan your moves ahead. If he really likes you, he'll make the move if the time is right. (Keep an extra pack of altoids in your pocket just in case you think it might be ;) lol) Maybe with this time you 2 are taking apart he'll be able to sort out his feelings. If you make Saturday special, he'll be thinking about it while you're gone. Keep me posted on what happens. Good luck, hope you 2 work out!
xo-Jor*
(Rating: 5) thanx bunches.. the altoid thing was funny.. but i'll use it. I found out yesterday that i have to leave tonight so i cant be with him tomorrow night!! ;( he told me he was really lookin forward to it... being with me. But we're gonna hang out next weekend. ;) yeah...
But thanx and i'll keep ya tooned in!! k
Lots of love...
Kelsey