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Well due to some recent screw ups that I've made, I've decided to make an advice column to help those who have made some bad choices, or just plainly put, need help. So, please, feel free to ask whatever's on your mind, hopefully I can not only help you, but learn from what you're going through too. Thanks. -Jordan
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Alrighty...well let's see if anyone has any ideas on what I should do. :) Okay, well I've really liked this boy for way over a year and we went out most of the time I liked him. While we broke up though he's gone out with one girl and I've been with like two other guys but really we always seem to find eachother! But I really really really like him still, we had a few flings in the past couple months, and he has called me like everyday for a long time...up to a little bit ago and I didn't know what was up. Then I found out he asked out this other girl and my friend asked him why he hasn't asked me out yet (because he told her that he was going to but to keep it on the d/l) and he said it was because I never call him or talk to him at school. Well the thing is I do call him but not a lot and whenever I try to call him he calls me before and I tell him and he never believes me! Well now I'm trying to talk to him more in school so we don't seperate and then he don't like me anymore because I don't know what I would do! But everytime I try to do that he never talks back really because I think he totally gave up on us to. Does anyone have any ideas on what I should do about this! Please please help, it's really upsetting me and I don't know what I will do!
Well good, at least you're still trying. I'm sorry about your situation, but once you find something worth keeping, hold onto it. Call him, tell him how much he still means to you, and how sorry you are for letting things fall apart. Explain that you really do care and even if you didn't call him as much as he called you, it doesn't mean feelings weren't there. Be sincere when you talk to him about this. Guys think girls are bad with emotions, well guys are worse. Don't pout to him, but show your feelings. Besides, if you two have found each other before I'm sure you will again. Good luck, i hope it all works out for the best, -Jor*
(Rating: 5) Thanks! I like to think that we will find eachother again...I really hope so, but I can't be to sure, see we have found eachother so many other times so I hope if i try like he did things will be better!