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Hey, I'm Vicki and i'm from England in the UK. I can't really think of anything to say basically just to ask me anything and I will give the best advice I can!

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Gender: Female
Location: UK
Member Since: November 7, 2004
Answers: 9
Last Update: November 8, 2004
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How old do you have to be to give up on finding a girl friend. The reason I ask is that im 24 ill be 25 next may and ive never had a girlfriend or been in a serious relationship, I Know im not ugly and I can send you a pic to prove it, and most of the time i can talk to girls just fine, but it always ends up the same for me, they always say that im a real nice guy and that one day ill find the right girl for me and then the dreaded "LETS JUST BE FRIENDS".

I just dont understand what im doing wrong. and when i think about it it makes me real mad, that
there's girls out there with boyfriends that beat them, abuse them both phisicaly and mentaly,
they cheat on them and treat them like crap, but when asked why the girl stays whith him the anwser is always "cause I love Him". Life is just so f*cked up, how can guys that treat their girl like shes lower than crap get so much love, but a guy like me that alwas treats women with respect and is always nice and honest and caring
have to feel like hes going to be alone forever?

Ive had sex, but it was always one night satands and its not about sex. its about love, I want to love some one, life is just so empty and meaningless when you dont have anyone to sahre it with.

Now im getting to the point where the girls i meet are close to my age and want someone with experiance, witch i dont have.

So i figured if by the time i turn 25 i dont have a girlfriend i should just give up and not waste anybodys time.

what do you think?

I think you seem really nice and kind. Sorry to say this but it's probably right you just havnt found someone for you. It sounds really upseting you saying this and i simpathise with you but maybe you should be a bit more picky and not just try it on with anyone.

[EDIT] Have you tried going to different places, joining a gym or something. Or maybe a sports team. Do something whatever you are into and sometime soon you are bound to meet someone you like. When you do don't sound as if you are desperate and such like and make sure you are generally interested in her specifically. Just talk to her and if you like each other make a move and also don't expect sex straight away maybe you should wait a while until she wont feel like you only want ne thing.

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(Rating: 4) WHEN YOUVE BEEN ALONE FOR SO LONG YOU DONT HAVE THAT LUXURY, I WOULD BE LUCKY JUST TO FIND ANY GIRL TO BE WITH ME EVEN IF IT WAS JUST FOR A LITTLE WHILE.

BUT THANKS FOR THE ADVICE


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