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Q: ok, I was 12 whenever I first had sex...( I know Kinda young but...I was turning 13 soon) Well...it hurt SUPERSUPER bad but they say that after it hurts it's supposed to feel godd...but it didn't...it never once felt good...then the second time (i've only done it 2 times) it still didn't feel good..it kind hurt..adn once again NEVER once felt good?!?! whats wrong with me?!?!
Hey hun,
I'm not going to lecture you because I assume you know that 12 is a very young age to have sex. To answer your question quite frankly, losing your virginity is obviously gonna hurt because the guy is breaking your hymen but if you're really nervous or unsure it will hurt no matter whether you've had sex 1 or 1000 times. When you're unsure about having sex, your muscles tighten up and the guy will hurt you when he enters you. So what I suggest for the future is not to have sex outside a stable relationship with anyone you don't trust, and even then, always use contraception to keep safe. Then you won't have to worry about STDs, pregnancy etc and you won't be as nervous so you will be able to enjoy the experience! :-)

I dont even know you and I like Love you for that!! you sound like a mom!! A REALLY KOOL mom!!! ( i know, thats kinda odd that i just told u i loved you...but, i think u know wut i mean!!!)

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