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Okay. My boyfriend and I are thinking about going for the whole oral sex thing...and something about the whole subject really weirds me out. Like, I can't imagine giving a guy a blowjob, but it weirds me out even more to think of him going down on me.
For background, we've been together over 11 months, we've had sex, and we've usually kinda skipped over the oral issue. If it matters, I'm 17 and he's 18. I know I should just wait 'til I'm comfy with the whole idea, but I don't think I'll be comfy with it until I figure out what it is that's weirding me out. Anyone have any ideas?

If you're uncomfortable with it (giving OR receiving), you don't have to do it yet (or ever). If you're weirded out because penises seem "dirty," you can always do it in the shower. You can also start out practicing on his fingers - it's a major turn-on in itself. Also, contrary to popular opinion, you don't have to shave, although a bit of a trim might make things easier for him.

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(Rating: 5) Those are some good ideas...Thank you. =)


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