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My mission on Advicenators is to be honest. People lie when they answer because they want to be rated high, but I think people ask strangers on Advicenators things because they want an honest answer.My alias is Farren, and I'm in 9th grade. I think I'm mature for my age, but that could just be self-dilusion. I believe that everyone is in some way self-dilusional. So yeah, ask me a question if you want.
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Hey, i'm a 15 year old girl turning 16 n a few months. I'v never had confidence in myself and to be conpletely honest i kinda hate myself. I think im fat and ugly and i try to lose weight but nothings good enough.I'v never had a boyfriend in my life let alone had a guy tell me im pretty. My friends are pretty and they always have guys asking them out but i juss feel stupid hangin with them sometimes, like i dont belong. For the past few years i have resorted to cuttig myself. I'v only done it 3 times but i dont wanna go to counscling or anything cuz my parents and every1 will think im crazy i dunno what to do can you help me?
Cutting yourself doesn't help at all, and you may be doing it out of a need to be noticed.
Unfortunately, most guys our age care only about looks. Don't fear, they'll grow out of it (I hope). You'll find someone to be with, as long as you don't want some really hot guy (if you don't want other people to be so physically obsessed, you shouldn't be either).
You just have to wait it out. Things will get better. People shouldn't care so much about exterior, but around our age, they do.
If your friends are making you feel "excluded", maybe you should hang out with different people.
I think your just going through the depression phase all of us go through. Don't worry too much about appearance, because that's all that it is. You'll grow out of this depression and realize what's really important, and guys will grow out of their immaturity and cruelty (a few, anyways).
Hope I helped.
-Farren
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I wanted to say thankyou because out of every response yours seemed to help the most :)