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Q: A couple of weeks ago I met a guy at my best friends party. Lets call hym "a" Hes so hot and so nice but he kept checking me out. Since we were in a limo everyone was giving lap dances to regeaton music. I gave one to a guy and then "a" wanted one from me. But then I found out he has a girlfriend AND I know who she is. So I didn't give him one because it didn't seem like the right thing to do and I would have felt guilty...so he was like darn. But now I find myself liking him. He has broken upp with his gf and i know I have the opportunity but he just seems like a real player to me and I don't want a guy like that. After all he wanted a lap dance from a girl when he has a gf! And he was like well she doesn't have to know...wouldn't you be hurt if you were his gf? And please don't give me advice "well thats the way guys are" or "alot of guys will do that" because that is sooo not true. I just don't know what to do...He doesn't know I like him and I'm not sure if I want him to because...idk..I just can't resist...I want to like him..I just don't wanna get hurt..but I wanna be happy too..
xo0x confused x0ox
i think dat u shud look at other dudes. a lotta guys rn't dat way. don't go 4 da playa types cuz u'll just end up gettin hurt if he duz thins like dat (askin 4 a lap dance iz proof). maybe he likes u. maybe he just wanted a lap dance. who knows? anyways, i tink dat if u go wit him thins will just end up turnin bad. maybe he'll cheat on u? maybe he'll check out another gurl? i no if it were mi and i found out dat my bf wus doin thins lyk dat, i wud b majorly hurt. look at other guys!! there r a lotta guys out there dat r nice and want 2 be wit U and no1 else :)
)}i{( stefy

thanx! 143! xo0x

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heYy yALl, mah name iz stephanie .:stefy or stef 4 short:. umm, i luv 2 give advice and i'm pretti good at it, so ask mi any ques u want! I luv to dance! .:hip hop n jazz:., sing, act .:plays:., horsebak ride!!.:english or western but i like english betta:., sports .:soccer, tennis, volleyball, swimming, etc:. and hang out wit mah friends .:u guys noe who u r!!:. so i hope dat gives u a lil info on mi! xox :)
})i{( stefy


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