Okay, just for a little background info, my guy and I have been together eleven months in 2 days. We're totally in love, I know he'd never cheat on me, and I totally trust him.
He told me that he went clubbing with his guyfriends and was kind of surrounded by girls (I don't doubt this, he's really hot...*drool*), and was dancing with them and all that...
His guyfriends apparently were telling him "ooh, your girlfriend's gonna be pissed" and stuff like that, and he said I wouldn't.
The thing is, I told him I wasn't, but I kind of am...I mean, I've always said "oh, I'm not the jealous type" and I'm not, really. I trust him, and I know it's not cheating. It's just dancing. But it still bothers me for some reason.
I don't want to make him think I don't want him to talk to girls or anything, lol. I mean, that's hypocritical. Most of my friends are guys.
What should I do/say? Should I do/say anything, or just leave it alone?
Hey the same thing happened to me. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and half. In the beginning he used to go to clubs and everything and it didnt bother me too much but in a way it sorta did just the thought of him dancing with other girls. Well i told him that it sorta bothered me and he said that it would bother him too. So instead of going clubbing he and i and all our friends would just hang out. and if they all wanted to go then wed all go together! soo just tell him how you feel.
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That's a good idea. I just don't want him to feel like I'm stopping him from doing things...he has as much of a right to dance as I do. ^^ Thanks =)
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