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lorelei's Picture Hi, I'm Lorelei. I live with my mother, my older sister and my grandmother.
I travel a lot but I'm never a tourist. ;) My mother owns property all over the country and I'm extremely lucky to feel at home in so many different places. It's a lot of fun and I get to see a lot of things and meet a lot of people.
Shopping always seems to be better away from home too.
I'm very fashion-minded and stylish, spontaneous and energetic, dorky and giggly. I enjoy having a good time. Almost too much. I party every chance I get. I do drink but I do so responsibly and you should too.
I'm very young but the year 2003 caused me to learn more about who I am than some people get to learn about themselves in an entire lifetime. Ever since I've made it a point to share what I've learned with everyone possible. Ask and I'll do my best to answer.

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Hey, there's this really cute guy who's locker is like two away from mine...and he also goes to my church and I have this massive crush on him! The only problem is that he doesn't even know me and I don't even know his name! Also, we're not in any classes, so I only see him at the beginning and ending of each school day! I wish I could talk to him and become friends...What the heck do I do to get him to notice me?

The easiest way to get someone to notice you is to talk to them. :) Sometimes, you have to make the first move.

Try dropping something close to his feet...(something stupid that he'll definitely return :P) and when he returns it, smile and look him dead in the eye when you say thank you. Eye contact is so important. Eye contact is what makes people remember your face.

Mention that you've seen him at church before and start up a conversation about that. If your church has some kind of activity coming up, ask him if he's going.

Another big key is to be expressive. Don't over-do it of course, but if you use your hands when you talk, don't hold back from doing that. Smile and use your eyes when you speak. Things like that will really help him to remember you and make you stick out in his mind.

I hope I helped. :) And good luck!
♥ Lorelei


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(5) Thank you so much! I think I'm going to try to drop something near him! Hehe, thanks for the great ideas...now I have something to look forward to! =)

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