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My mission on Advicenators is to be honest. People lie when they answer because they want to be rated high, but I think people ask strangers on Advicenators things because they want an honest answer.
My alias is Farren, and I'm in 9th grade. I think I'm mature for my age, but that could just be self-dilusion. I believe that everyone is in some way self-dilusional. So yeah, ask me a question if you want.

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ok... well theres this boy named dave. and he likes me. everyday in school he flirts with me and i flirt back nothing harmful. but today when he asked me about homecoming i told him i was going with some friends. he wanted me to be his date but didnt state that. well he asked me if i liked him b4 and i said jus as a friend and ijust got out of a relationship that im still upset about and im not over my ex nor do i want to be. so with telling him i jus want to be friends and that im not ready for anything and that maybe ill see him at homecoming... was it the right way to handle it? i felt bad bc i dont like to hurt ppls feelings and he is nice and everything.. but im not into him.. did i handle it ok?

I think you handled his questions perfectly. You seemed to be considerate of his feelings and I applaud you for it.
Although I really dislike the fact that you sort of led him on (not that I dislike you, just what you did). You shouldn't flirt back if you don't like him. The guy could get the wrong idea. It's like setting him up for failure.
So many girls do this, and I really don't understand why.
Didn't mean to be offensive, just trying to be honest.
-Farren

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(Rating: 5) thanks for ur honesty
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