Hello, my name is Jane Moon.
I have been through some things: rape; sexual harassment; sexual relationships; relationships with both older guys and younger; drinking; recently-gotten-over anorexia; and of course, love and crushes. I also grew up with a lot of guyfriends so I understand why they act the way they do.
I had hard times going through problems, and I wouldnt be able to forgive myself if I let another person go suffer like I did. I want to help you, because you probably dont deserve all these pains happening to you. There is no way to stop them--they are part of life--but I CAN help you go through it without much pain.
I can help eating disorder problems well especially, because i have been there myself, and my friend helped me get over my disorder, so i know how i can help.
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Ok this is going to be pretty long but it's worth reading!! Ok... me and this guy kyle were friends since like december. in febuary, i went over to his house and he was telling me all about how him and his girlfriend were broke-up and he was very upset about it. so later in the month i went over to his house and we kinda messed around (we didnt' have sex though). so kyle moved to california in March. (i live in arizona)i didn't talk to him again until like july. i truly love him. he feels the same way. although the other day he texted me and told me that his girlfriend (from before we started talking again) called and wants him back. now he's not sure wat to do (i don't really blame him). But i still love him and he said he loves me and always will but he isnt' sure wat to do about his gf who just came back!!! Please HELP Me!! I'm 15 and he's 18.
Thx,
Jessica (link)
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I know he told you he loves you and I believe it. But you know what they say: You never fall all the way out of love. Perhaps he loves you, but maybe he still has feelings for his ex. After all, they went out and share a lot of memories with each other. If he were completely over her, he wouldnt be lost like this right now. Or perhaps his relationship with his ex were more of a friend-lover kind. Meaning she were his friend at the same time as she was his girlfriend. So it might be possible that Kyle just doesnt want to hurt his ex's feelings by rejecting her.
Make sure you dont pressure him to make the decision, because he seems to be in stressful and tough situation. Just let him know you'll always be there waiting for him because you love him so. Let him know you respect his decision because you know for truth he loves you.
I sincerely hope your relationship works out well.
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Thank-you soo much.... ur advice was GREAT!!
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