Hello, my name is Jane Moon.
I have been through some things: rape; sexual harassment; sexual relationships; relationships with both older guys and younger; drinking; recently-gotten-over anorexia; and of course, love and crushes. I also grew up with a lot of guyfriends so I understand why they act the way they do.
I had hard times going through problems, and I wouldnt be able to forgive myself if I let another person go suffer like I did. I want to help you, because you probably dont deserve all these pains happening to you. There is no way to stop them--they are part of life--but I CAN help you go through it without much pain.
I can help eating disorder problems well especially, because i have been there myself, and my friend helped me get over my disorder, so i know how i can help.
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well i have this friend lets call him fred well fred and i have known eachother for hmm 6 years or so and hes 2 years older than me so hes 15 and a sophmore and im 13 in 8th grade anyways fred used to hate me but now he wants to get with me there are two problems..
1) he has told me himself he cant keep a girl for longer than 3 days, but those 3 days cud be the best 3 days of my life since i've liked him for 6 years
2) he told me he does weed now im not sure if he still does but he told me he quit and im not sure if i shud believe him
3) i smoke and he's okay with that but i dont want to get him addicted by bein w. me
4) we live 30 mins away from eachother but im movin to his town this summer so when im a freshman he'll be a junior...
can anyone help me? i rate high tnxs (link)
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First of all, I personally agree with the idea that those three days may be the best days of your life. And seriously, who knows? Perhaps he couldnt keep a girl longer than 3 days because he hasnt met any girl who he truly loved yet. It occurs to be that if he went out with you and found out that he really like you, he might decide, "This is the girl I was looking for,"" and go out with you longer. Futhermore, three days with him is better than three days without him. Yes, you should go out with him.
Secondly, the marijuana matter. So maybe he did pot before, but he told you he quit. If you love him, then trust him. If you find out later, THEN is the right time, not now. You have to trust him, because he is your boyfriend.
I hope my advice helped
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