Hello, my name is Jane Moon.
I have been through some things: rape; sexual harassment; sexual relationships; relationships with both older guys and younger; drinking; recently-gotten-over anorexia; and of course, love and crushes. I also grew up with a lot of guyfriends so I understand why they act the way they do.
I had hard times going through problems, and I wouldnt be able to forgive myself if I let another person go suffer like I did. I want to help you, because you probably dont deserve all these pains happening to you. There is no way to stop them--they are part of life--but I CAN help you go through it without much pain.
I can help eating disorder problems well especially, because i have been there myself, and my friend helped me get over my disorder, so i know how i can help.
You are NOT alone.
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Okay here's the deal: (sorry if it's long but i really need advice w/ this)
three years ago i dated this guy Dave for three weeks. after those three weeks he dumped me cause i wouldn't sleep w/ him. loser. anyway; i moved on and started dating his friend. almost three years later we're stil together. they're not friends anymore tho.
so lately wherever we go and Dave's there, he'll totaly hit on me and he won't leave me alone. if we're at a party he'll follow me around all night asking me stupid questions and completely stalking me. this weekend we were at a party and my boyfriend and i were just in a corner talking and kissing and he comes up right between us and starts a convo w/ me. my boyfriend thinks it's funny cause Dave is being such a loser. my boyfriend wants me to tell him off but i just can't be mean to someone, i've never ben able to tell anyone off but i CAN'T stand Dave. usualy when he's talking to me i just walk away and totaly ignore him but he doesn't get the hint. what would you do? (link)
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I've had similar situation where the "stalker guy" used to be my best friend and plus my friend had a crush on him.
I couldnt bear to hurt his feelings, and my friend would get mad at me for doing so.
But it came to the state where he was actually scaring the heck out of me, and sometimes I would cry because he scared me so much.
And one day I realized, "What am I doing?"
I mean, here he was,literally ruining my life, and I was doing nothing about it.
He was being this big obstacle in my life and I was doing nothing about it.
So I decided, I will just tell him.
It was hard, and he got really angry at me, because obviously he thought his "stalkings" were nothing. He thought it was just expression of love and got mad at me for not appreciating them.
But I did, and now he barely talks to me anymore.
At first I felt bad, but I realized the guy who I used to be friend with wasnt the same guy who stalked me. He changed, and it wasnt my best friend I was telling off, just a really annoying stalker dude.
It's the same for you.
It's not someone you used to love you are telling off...It's someone who stalks you.
This is YOUR life, and if someone is interfering with it, YOU have a right to remove that person out of your life.
I sincerely hope my advice helps. :)
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