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Ive been going out with my boyfriend for a week now, and I really like him a lot. I've heard stories about him getting stuff from girls then not talking to them but he wasnt going out with them though. All I've done is kiss him so far only because I'm so afraid all he wants from me is sex or something like that and I dont want to bring it up in case he isnt using me. But I was just wonderin if there was anything I could do besides being a prude to see if he really likes me or not. Thanks!

my friend has this situation a lot but she always does stuff with the guy and then soon after its like they stop talking to her i dont believe that they were using her for sex tho. wen u do stuff with guys like that before ur in a relationship or evenearly in a relationship it makes them think that ur just a girl they can do stuff with and not have to worry about being tied down in a relationship ....but since ur alreadi with the guy its alil different... i would say wait a month and if he asks u todo stuff before then say no and explain why like say that u wanna wait until u feel comfortable and kno that its not all he wants and say that ud like to wait atleast a month that way if ur not sure ina month u can just say not yet or whatever so just see what he says and then go from there if es like i understand then thats good but telling him in person would be better cuz then itll seem more serious and u can see how he reacts better

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