Member Since: August 19, 2004
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Last Update: September 13, 2004
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I am a 39 year old woman who has been seeing the same man sexually for almost 2 years. What we have is very special. We both admit that. We have made an agrement with each other not to sleep with anyone else except each other. My problem is that I want more out of this relationship. And because it has been sexual, I can't tell if he wants the same. In the past when I asked for a committment, he said he couldn't at that time, because he has goals he needs work towards and needs to focus on them. Even though he said he would like to the timing was off. I am feeling like it will always be sexual, nothing more. Can I be wrong? Should I wait it out? I do have very strong feelings for this man.
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Well if you have been dating for the past 2 years and you ask him about a bigger comitment, then maybe he isnt really ready for a wife, or he might just want to wait a little bit longer. The best time to ask him agian about a comiment would be when is is realxed, not worrying about work, and just calm. And if you wanted to marry him you shoudl be able to tell him your feelings...so maybe you shoudl just tell how you feel.
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