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Hey. I need some advice and you seem like you like helping people out so here i go:
I'm a sophomore and ever since last year, I have liked this guy in my high school and he has liked me back. However, this guy is a player. He goes out with many girls at the same time. He gets over all of them, yet he's never been able to get over me. He always asks me out and I always refuse him. Who would want to go out with a player and get hurt? He promises me that he'll change. Sadly, I caught him making out with another girl the day after. I was devastated. I sent him a letter that told him how I felt. In it I told him how stupid I felt for liking and caring so much about him for such a long time. I also told him I was sick of lies and false promises. I ended it by saying "don't write back or talk to me anymore...leave me alone, you've hurt me enough." I should feel better now that it's over, but I don't. The thought that he'll never talk to me again makes me sad. Even though he's broken my heart and played me from the very start, I can't help but keep liking him. Should I talk to him again? Should I keep trying to make "us" work out? Please let me know your honest answer. (link)
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Let me start off by saying, no girl deserves to be treated like that. You were right for sending him a letter saying what you did, it was definatly the right thing to do. As for trying to make you two work out, don't do it. I am sure you're beautiful, but you just get stuck on guys you know you could never have, just because of the way they act, like this guy. I've been dating the same guy for 6 months now, and he treats me like his everything, and that's how every girl deserves to be treated. When you told him not to talk to you ever again, that was right of you to do, he doesn't deserve to talk to you! How long has it been since you gave him the letter? Because every heart needs time to heal, and yours will heal in no time. Don't try to directly jump into a diffrent relationship, or get stuck on another guy, just put yourself out there and let guys know you're single. If you find a guy that sparks your intrest, get to know him, and try him out for a change. You'll be over that jerk in no time.
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Thanks for your advice. I also think I shouldn't have been treated like I was. Hopefully someday I'll find a guy that's truly worth it all. As for this jerk, I promised myself I'd get over him.
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