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My name is Sam. I'm a junior at SHS. I've been through alot and I have friends that have been through alot so I thought I'd make a good advice columnist. I like music.
Bands I suggest you look into are:
Steriogram
Lola Ray
NFG
Graham Colton Band
Transplants
The Von Bondeles
Hole
Auf Der Maur
Trapt
A Perfect Circle
Distillers
Poison the well
My Ruin
The Murder Dolls
and last but not least Full Blown Rose.
Yes. Music. It's a huge part of my life.
Gender: Female
Location: Connecticut
Occupation: Junior in High school
Age: 16
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Member Since: August 23, 2004
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my bestest, bestest, BeStEsT friend in the whole wide world jus did the worst thing a best friend cud eva do. She slept wit my crush. She sed she didnt mean to, and basically CrIeD, BEGGING me to forgive her. But how can i? She smokes, and she said it wuz becuz she wuz high. Yur probably wonderin wats she doin at his house in the first place. She goes there to get cigarettes. Its bad enuff that kidds our age shudnt be smoking, but anyway.... So she slept wit him, while i wuz on vacation. I'm jus glad she told me, but how can i ever forgive her? She PrOMISeD me she wud never do this to me, and she did. But then again, i mean its not like i wuz goin out wit him in the first place, so it isnt really my crush's fault. She said He came on to HER, but of course thats wat she's gonna say. I dunno wat to do. I'm jus so glad she told me, cuz she could've jus lied and sed everything wuz OK. But deep down...i'll let the picture speak for itself >:0. She begged me for forgiveness, and i want to forgive her, but i cant. Wat shud i do? (link)
I'd have to say that you shouldn't forgive her. I'm sorry it has to be that way but she deserves it. What she doesn't deserve is a great friend like you. It's hard enough to keep friendships together today with sex among young teens on the rise but to give in to it all and have her do that with your crush just isn't right. It's not the friend thing to do and if she was really your friend she wouldn't have done that.


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thanx for the advice. i appreciate it




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