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Well...It started out as:
This guy IMed my friend and she added him to a chat we were having.Well after my friend left we started talking and he gave me his other screen names. We talked/talk everyday. Well, we got really close...and now I think I may be starting to develop feelings for him.
Is it wrong that I might like him as more than a friend if I've never met him face to face? I don't know if I should...because...well,I'm almost positive he is NOT a paedophile...but one can never be to sure. I don't want to get hurt like that, but I just want to know if its wrong to have a little crush on him.
It is ok to like him. really that is the best way because you get to know him by personality not looks. which can sometimes blind people of the real heart and soul of someone. On the other hand meeting him can be dangerous like you said. If you wanted to meet him have your parents go with you and maybe a friend to stand by your side so that if somethin happens there are witnesses definatly do it in a popular area where there are people and if they arent who they say they are they wont be as tempted to make a move. For example in a restraunt is probably the best. And like i said it is ok to like him it could open your eyes to another person that you have never seen someone that you know just by the way that their mind thinks and the things that he goes through. I hope that you have luck in what ever you seek. And please be careful! I cant say that enough.
(Rating: 5) thankies! Yeah.. i don't plan on meeting him...not for a while at least. He lives kind of far from me... so whe I turn 18 and go on the road trip my friends and I have been planning, I'll meet him.I promise you I'll be careful!