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A little less then two months ago I found out my cousin was raped and i've been having some trouble dealing with it.I'm really close to this cousin , she's liek my best friend.when i first found out i just started crying , i couldnt even look at anyone for a copuple days.That i had to cry myself to sleep.i used to live in a house with her in when i was younger,i lived on the bottom and she lived on the top.Whenever i think about her and her baby i cant help but cry and its so hard for me to look at her without crying.I cant help but think maybe if i hadnt moved away i would have been with her and i could have stopped the jerk who did this to her.I seem to be the only person in my family who thinks she can finish high school and still take care of her baby.i mean its her family thier supose to be supportive of her.She was raped when she was 14 and had her baby when she was 15.She was born about 3weeks ago.I still cant help but worry about her and feel like i could have done something and i should tell my parents to be more supportive of her and stop thinking so negative.I couldnt even talk to my best friend about this w/o feeling stupid so if anyone has any advice for me, please send it. (link)
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wow..that is really tough i am so sorry..it is not your faut! ok, its not like you would have just let it happen. there was nothing that could be prevented in this case. and you are right, your family is supposed to support her, and they should not think negative. just try to offer help any way you or your family can - offer to babysit if she needs to study, anything. she should still be able to lead a normal life. its not fair to her that people treat her different if they even do, and if they do, thats their problem! dont let anything bother you, just ignore everything. and dont feel stupid! that guy made a big mistake!! if he has a record, and they test DNA and stuff then they can track him down and stuff, so just dont doubt yourself and keep your chin up. i hope i helped out and good luck. if you need anymore advice just check out my column..its got my AIM sn.
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Thanks alot for your advice.All of the advice i've gotten has really helped alot.Thanks so much for the advice again.
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