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I dont know why, i always feel like people on here are trying to help me and doing a good job of it, but i never find really good help. Not trying to scare you or whatever, i rate 5's as long as your nice, lol. But anyway heres my REAL issue. Ok so i know this sk8ter guy. We talk sometimes but never have we been close friends. I dont know he doesnt really have many 'close' friends that are girls, but hes really hot. Hes just so into skateboarding i guess. Every year I try and get to know him more and more but his friends are all jerks, and im not going to try and change his group. Thats not me. But.. its like to be his friend you have to be theirs. They have to accept you. And no way am I being friends with jerks. Any good tips to get to be better friends? Also.. if hes not 4 me, my town is so small. Its hard to meet guys around here, and reallly you can never find a good one. I've never been 'ugly' or anything like that i've been told im pretty and all that but no guy has actually ever told me to my face or whatever that hes liked me. I feel.. kind of.. i d k. What do i do to sorta change this? Besides be myself. I know how to be myself, but from there where do i go?

thanks to anyone who will read this

Hello. If this "sk8er boy" doesn't have many female friends but is 'sort of' friends with you, then he deffinately likes you for who you are. As for his "jerk" friends, if they don't like you now, they won't like you. That's no problem. Just try to find something you and sk8er boy have in common that you both like (since it's not skateboarding, :) and if that doesn't work,then you may want to keep things as they are now, if that's as good as it's going to get. I am terribly sorry for any inconveiniences I may have caused, but I couldn't pass by you're diffuculty and I wanted to try and help. Thank you for you're time, and I hope all goes WELL for you!
-SilentHelper
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(Rating: 4) thank you.
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