Hi. My name is Alissa-marie, by friends call me Alissa or lis. I'm really open to comments and questions, because i get them alot. OK, Im supposed to give some sob story of why im here. But thats not gonna happen. Because im here because i feel the need to help some one, and i like to do it. You dont like what i say, oh well. I am an up front person. I know how to beat around the bush and i know how to jump into it.(perferably, jumpin, lol)So, now u know a little bit about me. But this is all you need to know. Why? Because this column isnt about me and my woes-you can go to my live journal for that. This is about you. Ask intelligible questions, and you get one back. If you ask a dumb question -and i dont always have a sence of humor- dont expect an answer.**There is a wonderfull button called 'reject'...**
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What should I do about this...me and my boyfriend were talking about college and I got upset that he wasnt goin to be going to the same college as me the first semester, he wants to start the second.So I got upset over it and then he told me to drop him off so I did at like 3ish yesterday. An hour later he shut his phone off and it has been off since. I called his sister who I'm friends with because my boyfriend didnt show up to work today (he works for my dad) and she said he didnt come home last night. She also said that him n his friend went to her work last night but his friend is on vacation 2 hours away. He could of came back to pick him up though. If he went he wont be home untill Sunday. I tried calling his friend and his friend isnt answering his phone. What should I do? I'm so upset that my boyfriend would just go away and not tell em especially when I was so upset. What should I do if I can't get a hold of him? I feel like I'm lost (link)
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like icy said, give him space, dont pressure him. The next time you see him, approach him with a smile, and dont automatically jump to the subject thats on your mind. Ask him how his day was....just untill he talks to you about it or you feel that hes ready to go on that subject. Remember, the first step in a relationship is to LISTEN, as i have all so often reiterated.
Hope i helped!!
Alissa
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Thank you, I will do that when he gets home
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