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My friend has been going out with this immature guy for like 7 months now. He is soo rude to her like not returning phone calls, making fun of her friends (like me for instance), blowing her off for his friends. I was open with her telling her how i felt about him, but she didn't care at first. Now she's thinking about dumping him, but she just doesn't have the heart to.
Any advice on what she should do? I rate high! thanks in advanced.

It's hard watchin your friend go thru what you know is a mistake isn't it?! But the thing about it is,you have to let her make her own mistakes and learn from them!She'll be a much better person for it!!!As for what should she do,if she's really upset with his behavior,which I could see why,she needs to sit him down and let him know!Talk to him and let him know how she's feeling.If he's not willing to listen,talk about it,or work it out together,in my opinion,he's not worth the pain.She deserves a guy that will take her feelings into consideration!You shouldn't ever settle for less than that.By letting someone walk all over you and get away with anything you're sending off a strong message about your character and self-esteem!!Believe me,I've been there!!So,my advice is talk to him.If he's a jerk about it,which it sounds like he quite possibly will be,give him his walking papers!!Haha! Hope this helps ya some!! ;)

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(Rating: 5) thanks for the very long, but helpful answer! :)


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