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hey! thanks for looking at my advice site! don't be afraid to ask me anything - worst comes to worse i'll just straight up tell you that i don't know the answer (but i'll try to give you advice neway haha)...remember: a different perspective is always helpful :~D !advice
ok well i like this boy named pat i lik him allot i have liked him for awhile and i have gotten ovr n e othr person i liked before wit him..wen im wit him its lik everythign is different and for once i dun havta change or always get dressed up im just happi wit him..it seems lik he likes me too or at lesast all my frneds tell me that..i usualli just sit hea and lik flirt wit him and i try not to make a big del or to movre to fast or w/e but tonite it was soo hard we were in my room flirtng for such a long timee and lik im just confused i guess because we had 43243 hcances to hook up but we didnt and like i lik him sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much u hav no idea..and wen he wasd leaving he was lik ohh im not leaving without my hug and all this shit and it mite not seem lik ne thing btu it ment allot to me and i luv being wit him i reali do the onlii problem is..he is soo shy lik realli realli realli shy he has had lik 2 girlfriends and hes reali cute and hes 13 and everything and he has onlii hooked up wit one girl once..and itsj ust lik .. its relali realli hard to change a persona nd i deff dun wna changfe him i luv the way he is its just that lik hes soo shy that lik nothing reali can happen and tonite my frineds asked him if he wnted to hook up wit me and he sed he dno and that its hard to xplain and all this shit everyone thinks he likes me but its hard to tell sumtimes for me lik others i beilev it but he sed that he wudnt pull away if i kisse dhim but that mite just b becuz not mani ppl wud reali pull away frm a kiss..wat shud i do plzz sumone help me..im afraid to make the furst move..i meen this kid is great but wat if he goes around seyen i lik raped him wen i kissed him or he didnt wna hook up and i kissed him its lik a girl asken a guy out theas not reali a problem its just weird..if he reali realli liked me he wud make the furst move or asked me out..i wna go out wit him but i wud just hook up i reali realli like him its just lik i dun wna make the furst move that much..but i dun even kno if he wants to..im not usualli the one asken for advice im usualli giving it but its like no mttr wa ti tell myself to do its like theres always somehting bad that cud happen and i kno life is about taking the chances..but the truth is ... im afraid to i guess * thnx for reading . . . KaT *
definitely don't assume he doesn't like you just because he hasn't made a move - i have a friend who liked this kid and he liked her but they never told each other and so it took them way longer to get together than it should've but now they're happily going out! if you know for a fact that he's the shy type, then it's very likely that he does like you - go for it ~ what's the worst that can happen? it can't be any worse than not knowing
** you would've gotten a ton more answers to that if you had made it shorter -- ppl don't like reading the long ones
(Rating: 5) lol thanks for the tip .. and you made relly good points.. thnxx soo mcuh