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hey!! my names kristin! this advineators site is sooo awesome...i love answering peoples questions cuz i feel lyk im helping them.and it makes me feel special (even tho if i didnt help you..IM SORRY!) lol..but if anyone has a question just ask me cuz ill be more then happy to help you!!!!! :)
luv, kristin

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I would like to thank y'all in advance before you read this. It's probably rather long just because I think you need a little backround information about me... Good luck and thanks if you give me advice... I'll rate you high for this one (That sounds like a bribe)... ANYWAY... I'm having kind of a friend/idenity crisis. First off.. I use to NEVER hang out with girls. I was always one of the guys until 8th grade (I am not going into 10) When I grew boobs, had a NICE body, and was the captian of the competition cheerleading sqaud of my middle school. I had everything I wanted... I was beautiful, and popular (Shalow.. I know) Then, I didn't even make the high school cheerleading sqaud and I was kind of at an all time low. It was one of the most depressing time periods ever for me. That summer I gained 30 pounds and had no friends except my boyfriend. Luckily, I had my boyfriend there for me, which is still with me. At the begining of my freshman year I told my boyfriend how I was kind of nervous about going back to school because of my drastic change. So he told me I should hang out with girls. And so I did. I found a group of girls to hang out with. Turns out the year before I had bad thoughts about them but once I got to know them they werent what I really thought... (big lesson you all... don't jugde) Anyway, So that year was okay. I had girlfriends and stuff.. But I was kinda over weight and feeling really crummy about myself. But I wasn't gunna let that get me down... So I decided to get in something to take the place of my lifetime love, cheerleading. I became an active member in student council. There I became class president, And now I am student body president. I kinda prefer this position over cheerleading. ANYWAY... back to my friends... This summer was kind of weird with my girl friends position. I was happy i had girls to talk to about girl stuff and do girl things with. My boyfriend was happy too. So this summer I started big with TONS of partys and tons of drinking. Me and my girlfriends had a riot. But then I went to 3 leadership camps and decided that I wanted to be a role modle. So i stoped smoking, and drinking, and the parties. Well after I didn't want to do that my girl friends kind of left me behind even though we were really close. We barely talk anymore... And if we do its because they don't have anything else better to do and they wanna chill because they're bored. I know my possibilities.... I know my position.... I know what I can do... But what do y'all think about my position? About me? And what I should do.. Thanks

well, first of all there NOT true frieds if the only reason they hang out with you is becasue you drink and smoke...it sounds lyk they could be using you to "look cool" or something...i dont kno...but anyways people lyk that arnt worth your time...find other friends that are true...friends shouldnt drink and smoke WITH you...they should be trying to get you to stop!find other friends that are girls...maybe ask one of the other over-sized girls to start a diet with you ....if you want to lose weight. just be friendly , kind and welcoming to others and you will make friends! and remember people who wanna change you or dont lyk you because you stop doing something "cool" are def. not worht your time!

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(Rating: 5) Thank you. Yeah I've already lost all the weight... Thanks for your advice :)
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