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You should...do what feels right. But I can't seem to fathom the idea that a 14 year old is completely emotionally and physically ready. Sex is a big deal. It's not like giving him a blowjob or anything. It's big. You WILL never be the same again. I know you think he is the "love of your life" and maybe he is, who am I to say that? But you don't know what life will bring you, and I don't want your life to change because of it. You will look at him a different way, and he'll look at you a different way. And once you go foward, you can't go back. I wanted to do this once, but I then realized it wouldn't be a one time thing. It's ongoing. And I don't know...but I don't think you are ready for a sexually active relationship at 14. There's so much that could go wrong, because you both are inexperienced, and it's really not worth it right now. And trust me, if you wait, you won't regret it. It can only go up right? I mean... if he is the love of your life, what's another 2 years? Then atleast you'll be more sure. :) Have faith in yourself.
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