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Hey, guys! I'm supposed to call this guy I like back in ten minutes. We're not dating, but we can both tell it will happen soon. He asked to see me again, and we couldn't come up with things to do. He said we could go swimming, but I'm not the most confident person, and I wouldn't feel comfortable swimming infront of him. I don't want to tell him this, because it's highly embarrassing and something I just wish to keep to myself. I know you could tell me that if I can't tell him something like this a relationship wouldn't be good, I just don't feel like it's his business. Can someone please tell me what to say to him, or suggest another outing? Please help me!!

Being uncomfortable is a normal part of being in a relationship. Both sides have to be step out of their comfort zone every once in a while. I know its hard, but be confident in yourself and go swimming with him. Whats the worst that could happen?

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(Rating: 5) Thank you for your advice, I really do appreciate it. You bring up good points. You get my 5! =D
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