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Me, and my friend have been fighting alot. Lets just say her name is ellie, well ellie and me have been best friends since the 3rd grade, so now thats about 4 years of being best friends. but now shes starting to get a little bossy, saying stuff like im getting to comfertable with her family like i dont say thank you enough. that kind of stuff tho i am fine with. but this morning she started to say that i was getting to comfertable again, and saying was acting really bitchy and all i did was i was hangin out with her brother, and her neighbor, but i was leaving her out. But besides this morning shes been fighti with me over a lotta little thing, and im starting to get really stressed out. i dont kno wut to do anymore. PLZ PLZ PLZ HELP ME. should i break the friendship, or try to work with it. im starting to feel like i cant breathe.
Wow! This sounds SO familiar!!! I went thru something like that with a best friend of mine.We had been nest friends for 3 years,and we were as close as 2 bff's can get,we spent all our time together!!But then I started to take notice to what EVERYONE had been telling me for ages,that she was bossing me around,telling me what to wear,how to fix my hair,she decided where we were going and when.Long story short,I hear ya and I understand.One day I just had had enough,and it ended in a big blow up.But I'm thankful to say that although we are no longer glued @ the hip,we are friends again,and we addressed our issues and will always be there for each other!My advice would be to try giving your friendship a little break.Give her and yourself some room to breathe.Explore other avenues,other friendships or even other hobbies or activities you might not have done before because she wouldn't have liked it.Then after some time,agree to sit down and calmly and honestly discuss how you feel,and where you want to go with your friendship.This is really familiar for me so if you'd like to talk more leave me an AIM or Yahoo SN in my column and I'd be glad to talk to you anytime!!!Hope I could be of some help!!!
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thanxx i think i'll give it time for us to breathe
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