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Hmm.. What kind of advice can I give? Any kind you'd like. Advice on relationships (all types) Getting out of trouble(my specialty) Sarcasim is always fun.
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alright well, lol. im 14 and a female. i feel kinda goofy doing this but whatever. i was going out with this boy for about 3 months and then broke up and have been for about 2 months. we've still been really really close though we talk all the time and hangout a lot and yeah, we've done stuff together since. he heard i had a boyfriend or was into some other guy, which isn't true. so now he has a gf i told him a couple days ago i still liked him and he should dump the girl hes with right now so i need to know if i should even bother waiting because he thinks it'd be messed up if he dumped her now just after a few weeks cause it would look like he was using her. i KNOW he still likes me thought, its like a feeling.
Well if he still likes you then you should stick with it. However don't wait on him too long. He should break it off with the other girl if he still has some feelings for you. I've been going through the exact same thing. It takes time but if ya'll BOTH still have feelings for each other, there is no need in ignoring them. He needs to realize that he wants to be with you and leading the girl on for longer would be wrong ifhe is planning on being with you. Tell him that you don't want to wait and that he's just leading her on, and breaking it off with her would be best. Basically, it's not in your hands now, it's in his. But it's your choice to wait or not. Give it a week or two and if nothing changes then it's probably best to move on.
(Rating: 5) thanks what you said really made me feel good about the situation and stuff. that other girl who answered my question kinda made me feel stupid like i was being a ho or something but what you said made sence and i felt ok with it your really good at this stuff and i hope you answer all my questions :]