Gender: Female
Location: United Kingdom
Occupation: Student
Age: 21
Member Since: February 22, 2004
Answers: 152
Last Update: November 20, 2004
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Im on this site as in advice giver but obviously i cant take my own advice, im just not good at it.. i just need to know how to deal with my sexual life. Im a bisexual, and it is out to most people (i only tell people i trust) i feel that i cant tell anyone else because some people already hate me and think that just because im a girl i have to like guys, but thats not what i choose, i like both sexes. And i dont want anyone else to hate me forever because of what i choose to do with my life. Most of my real friends except that im bi and dont mind bein around me, but others who dont except it, make sure other dont either, or they make dirty looks, or say and do terrible things to me. I try to say that im not bi anymore so that i dont have to be humilliated by my peers. I just dont know what to do anymore, but i dont want people to hate me for my sexual life, it doesnt seem right, is there anyone who can help me? (link)
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Firstly, NEVER be ashamed of who you are. Being bisexual is NOTHING to be ashamed of, and the people who tell you otherwise only do so because they don't understand it- that's how it goes with kids, if you don't get it you have to attack it. You said that most of your real friends accept that you're bi - then who the hell else matters? If you're happy liking both sexes, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.
As for being bullied, that's not acceptable in any shape or form. Tell someone you trust (a teacher, a parent), and get that sorted out. If you don't want to go to a teacher, just hold your head up high and ignore them. *Hug* I hope everything works out for you, and these ignoramuses stop annoying you :)
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Thank you very much, i do except your advice, and i take it you except me. Thank you!
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