Gender: Female
Location: United Kingdom
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Age: 21
Member Since: February 22, 2004
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Last Update: November 20, 2004
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i'm a 16 yr old wo has been bullied for 9 nine years. Mostly fopr the pure reason of my apperance. I live in a family of five in a one parent family. I arn't the kind of kid to ask for everything maybe coz i no we cart afford it. At school i have at least 90 kids bullying me about my appearance and teaseing me. We i started igh school i had a group of friends but now the popular person in the group lost a bit of weight and turned into a bitch saying i could never get that size because im a size 16. Sjhe is aware i am being bullied. Now i have no friends at school cart go to half my lessons coz its so bad. I arn't jelsous of them i just no why people say be proud to be different if ppl just bully u. Ive been to the doctors about depresstion and the school nurse. A man who deals with suidal people sat in on one of out conversations but i guess i wasnt that important. I cart look ppl in the eyes anymore i have so much pain in my heart and feel so unhappy for something i cart change. I no the bullying wont stop but i just want to no why i souldf be the one feeling lonely upset and made to feel different coz i have ginger hair and dont wear adidas. (link)
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Hey
I was bullied right up until I left school for college, because I always get good grades and study hard, and also because I'm overweight. People used to poke fun at me all the time, so I know what this feels like. The difference is, I didn't let them get me down. I stood up for myself. If someone starts teasing you, just walk past like you didn't hear them. Listen to music while you walk into school if you want to ignore them. One of the popular girls in my classes always used to pick fun of me because I have a particularly distinctive laugh; and now she's working down at macdonalds serving burgers while i'm studying psychology at college. Size 16 is the average size for women, so DO NOT think that you're alone. Tell someone you trust; your parent, an older sibling, a teacher. You SHOULDN'T be the one feeling lonely and upset, and you seem to be realising that. Try not to let them get to you, concentrate your energies into your studies. If you need to talk, just drop me a note.
Oh, and by the way, ginger hair is ADORABLE :)
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thank u i wish there were more ppl like u inmy class and i wouldnt have any triuble thank u 4 begining there to reply means a lot
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