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helppp! my boyfriend and i are both 21. our one year anniversary is dec 30th..and christmas is coming up too...i have no idea what to get/ do for him! any ideas?!

Hello darling,
Okay, well it all depends on what he likes.
Does he like romance? Try making dinner for him and getting him something that means something to him.
Or you could make him something. Like a collage of the two of you together over the past year.
Best of luck,
xx

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this girl i like is moving that what she is saying but in the past she said it but really didnt move she says she want to be with me but her mom wont let her brake up with her bf

Hello darling,
Okay, well, you need to talk to this girl. Tell her that her mom does not control who she can't and can be with. If you really enjoy her company and she moves away, message, call her, etc. Until you meet again.
Best of luck xx

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When someone says: "It extrudes my confidence in you."

What the heck does that mean?
I know this person already used "Extrude" in the wrong context but what do you think this person meant by it?

Hello Darling,
Okay, well, actually, the person saying it did not use it in the wrong context, rather, they should have used a different word.
Extrude means to push out.
So basically what they are saying is that whatever you did made them lose confidence in you.
Best of luck xx

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I constantly strugle with lifes demands .I work two jobs and I find myself always on everybodys time but my own .I have to work two jobs just to make it .and the economy sucks right now iv been looking for a better job but I'm always over qualifide .and I'm too tired physicaly and emotionaly drained .I took a week off from one job on vacation .and I couldn't even get out of bed to do anything .sometimes I feel like just giving up .but I still keep shuveling the shit that I'm delt every day .its to the point where I hate coustomers because they won't leave me alone .I know that sounds pathetic but its the truth .I finde myself hateing myself .and just don't want to deal with it anymore but I have too .I have to force myself out of bed just to go to work .so what's the matter with me ?? Is it just me or a reason I fell this way .too tired too even finish this .

It seems like you have MD (Minor Depression). You haven't found what you are passionate about yet so you get tired of living and working when you don't enjoy it. Have you ever read the book "Tuesdays with Morrie" by Mitch Albom? I suggest you read it...it'll change your life. I also strongly suggest that you try fixing it up a bit. You know, move into a smaller house, have only one job, and on the side do things YOU enjoy, and try to find a better job.
Don't worry, there is more to life than just what you've seen.
Best of luck. xx

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so im 17 yrs old from canada. im in a long distnace relationship with a guy who is also 17 and lives in the usa. 9 hrs and 36 min away from me. We talk every day on skype and have been for 10 months. We love eachother to death! we have so many things in common and even our birthdays are right after eachother. My family knows about him as well as his about me. my dad has talked to him and i have in ways talked to his. He plans on coming up here in the summer for a couple weeks to see me cause we have never meet in person. ...he just hasnt got the ok from his parents yet...and i really hope they say yes.

What im really askin here is, its the hardest thing i have ever done, parents arent really for it and some friends arent eiether which make it hard. Is there anyone who is in the same situation and still together...married maybe? What was it like meeting for the sametime? awkward? and advice? I really want to get peoples advice who are or were in a long distance relationship. Thank you so much for your time!

Hello.
The hardest thing to do is stay in a long distance relationship, but did you know that people stay together longer if they have had a long distance relationship in the past? It just brings people closer.
I have been in a long distance relationship before. The guy that I was with is now just my friend, until we meet of course. It can both be very awkward and not awkward. It all depends on what types of people you are. My advice is just ignore the people that don't like it. One day you will be with the guy you loved, and then you will get to say "I told you so" without any regrets.
Best of luck
xx

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My wife had her minstreal cycle last week and 2 days after her cycle had ended it started again .but this time she is bleeding realy bad her pads are drenced with blood and she goes through 3 pads every 2 hours .ther are other things two like we haven't had sex in almost 2 years because she said it hurts too bad but when we did have sex in the past she would bleed afterwards .she is 33 years old so I don't think it menopause she's too young for that .so I don't know what it is .should she go to see a doctor .I think she does and I told her she needs to go and I would be by her side but I thinks she's afraid .how do I convince her to go .or does anyone out here have any clue as to what is going on with her .

Hello.
Well first things first, you have to tell your wife that it could be something very serious. But i highly doubt it. She shouldn't be bleeding that bad, so tell her everything will be alright if she goes to the doctor's, but everything may not be alright if she doesnt'.
Best of luck. xx
-Uniqueme

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Hi I'm a 20 yr/F. the problem that's occurring in my family is that my sister is neglecting her family. she is 21yrs old and in love with this guy who is 19 yrs old. i have no problem if she likes him or not, but she is totally obsesses with him. she cant stop thinking about him. the main point is that they're just friends. she always tells everyone that oh we're just friends. she always calls him 24/7 and always goes to visit him. she lives with me and our parents and doesn't give our parents respect. she always tells them lies and she occasionally steals money from them. just for this guy. and whenever she would go out to see him she wouldn't come back till 4 in the morning. i know u guys think that oh shes 21 and that she has her freedom, but she's dependent on our parents. and our religion does not allow smoking and drinking which she does and lies striaght to my parenbts face while shes drunk. i really need your help...please help me solve this problem. how can we keeep her under control cause shes totally out of it..??

Hello.
Well it seems to me, that you do care if she likes him or not. But i see your problem.
You can go about trying to calm down what she does a few different ways.
1: You can tell your parents to try to talk to her. Tell your parents to tell her that, as long as she lives under their roof and is dependent on them, that she needs to tone it down a bit.
2: Or you can talk to her yourself. Usually siblings help more than parents do in a situation like this. Tell her that you just thought that the boy she's hanging around with is just a friend. Talk to her about her drinking and smoking and lying habits. Usually, when people do this, there is a deeper problem they don't want to deal with. Try helping her solve whatever it is on her mind.

Best of luck xx
-Uniqueme.

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