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omg one of my best friends is getting on my nerves. ok well her other best friend that isnt really close to me was getting on our nerves cuz she was following abbey (best friend) everywhere. and she always had to be the center of attention. then me and my friend started ignorring her and it made me loose alot of friends. now abbey is friends again with her...and i really dont want to loose abbey but what if she does that to me? i really need some help . ThanKs
TALK TO HER! sit her down, tell her how you feel and that you dont want to loose her as a friend.
ok
i dont feel comfetable around my friend...she is really cool and like it seems like i have to be perfect around her. like today she wasnt feeling good and i didnt no what to say. and its not like she isnt a real friend cuz she used to be easy to talk to and stuff and now its like umm...weird. ive tryed talking to her and she just says oh i luv you why would i be mad. please dont tell me shes not my real friend cuz she is ..
i just want to no how to make it rite
tHaNkS
you need to be serious and talk to her about whats going on. tell her how you feel, dont let her just brush you off. sit her down and tell her how you feel and ask her how she feels about it.
This summer, this girl moved across the street from me. It's been six months and we've been best friends ever since. For the past month or two she has been annoying me and we get into arguements like every day. She copies everything everyone does... it's likes she can't even be herself. Im not even sure I really know her. Not to mention... she thinks it's my fault that I get mad at the things she does. I don't not wanna be friends with her! What do I do?
well, obviously your going to get annoyed with eachother if you see eachother every waking moment of the day. thats a given. alls you need to do is tell her straight up that you need your space, that you need to be by yourself and she just needs to back off a bit. dont break off the friendship, just take a break.
ok well im 18/f , and my b/f got me pregnant , lik 3 months ago, b4 he broke up wit me. today he punched me in the stomach , nd in my face. and i dnt kno wut to do?? plz help me. how do i kno if he killed my baby?
you need to go to the doctor about this, and go to a lawyer. thats abuse and he can be put away for that. if he killed the baby then hes looking at murder.
ok well my armpits sweat all the time and i wear the strongest deoterint. i cant raise my hand and play sport cuz im afriad ppl will see. oh by the way im f/13...any segjestions?!
ThAnKs
tell your mom//dad that you want to see a doctor about it. they may be able to help you out a bit more.
Hey! My boyfriend and I have been going out for ten months in March, and I really think that him and I are in love. Not just in a physical sense, but him and I connect mentally. We both really enjoy intellectual discussions about anything and everything. We can talk about any problems that we're having and the other can almost always relate. We can stay on the phone for hours at a time and not get bored, and both of us are extremely loyal to the other. We're just like best friends excluding the romance part. We're really close. The only thing is, sometimes it gets so discouraging when people say we're too young to be in love. I know we're both in love with each other, but other than getting married when we're able to (He and I are both fourteen), how can we deal with annoying old people who think love can only be understood at a certain age? Thanks in advance.
you cant quite do anything. go about with your lives and they will theirs. young love, some dont believe in it and some do. all you need to worry about is you two not what other people say//think or feel.
Ok my dad lives in Atlanta Georgia and he doesnt send me anything like money and he said he would.I want a flip phone and my mom wont get it for me and i wanna ask my dad can he send me some money so i can get one. Is that being rude??? he needs 2 start sending me it or my mom is really going 2 get mad. So how do i tell him all this????
well thanx
signed,
Dont Know What To Do
this sounds like a mom and dad problem. you cant get EVERYTHING you want. just wait it out, talk to your mom about how you dont agree with how he doesnt send money or anything. she can go to court for child support.
okay, my friend is asking this question not me, she wants to know if the gyno can tell if you masturbate. She is going today and she masturbates but doesnt want her mom to know.
no they cant tell.
okay..so i have liked this guy for about 4 or 5 months..we have gotten close to getting to know each other but we are both so shy and like i am not really sure he liked me even though i heard that he did. Then something happened and we REALLY don't talk now..not even say hi and we usta say hi before.. He somtimes walks around near me with his friends a lot..but i want to try and get to know him and atleast be frinends wit him.. He doesn't seem to be tryin to get to know me though but i do kno he is really shy. Should i try to start talking to him again or is it not worth it? and cud he possibly like me?
hes prolly just shy and doesnt know how to act near you. w/e happened thats why he acts like that. guys get shy and weird because of things happening..their just weird like that. dont worry their ALLL like this! haha. anyways, yah try to just take him off to the side one of these days just be like.."hey (name), can i talk to you for a sec?" then just pull him off to the side and ask him to IM you..or call you sometime. appoligize for w/e happened ((if its that bad)) and just try to make things better. more or less, hes shy and doesnt know how to act. remember guys mature slower than girls.
I have a Honda Civic 97', and I haven't been driving that long. I'm just getting used to the clutch and I've almost worn it out and its getting really spongey. Are there any "homemade mods" or cheap parts I could buy to fix it?
tell your parents you need to look at a new clutch. it may be the throwout barron that needs to be replaced. i have a 96' geo metro..and its a standard and im a new driver. its gunna feel weird at first BELIEVE ME! haha.. but seriously just talk to the rents, ask them to take it to the garage. or better yet, be RESPONSIBLE and take it yourself one day after school or practice or w/e. go and ask them to check it out and ask them what parts they think you need and ask for an estimate from them.. then go back to the parents and tell them what happened and such. shows that your responsible and you really care about your car.
my boyfriend hugged me for the first time... and it was awesome!!! the only problem was that we were both hesitant... we just stood there looking at each other... bye the way... we're both VERY shy... he says he is gonna hug me again... but he is going to surprise me... how can i make it so im not hesitant?? thanks !
try to be more outgoing. you really cant cure shy.. haha sorry to say darling. i can remember the first time a guy hugged me. i was so nervous and acted the same way. its normal really it is. just let things go the way they want to. dont push for things to happen.
Hey i am 14 and my dad doesnt trust me AT ALL! Is there a way for parents to read what you wrote to other people on aim? If there is, how do I turn it off, or make it so my dad cant read what i am saying? Also, how do i get him to trust me more?? Thanx, eX 0h
no, he cant read your conversations on aol. most computers dont save them unless you have AIM+ then there is history. you can clear out the history by going under your AIM+ and clicking on history then cleaning that out. if your really worried about him reading your convos then you can also go into my documents there should be a folder called filelib, click on it and click on your screen name. if anything comes up delete it then clean out the trashcan.
also, go into the c drive. and find where your AIM folder is..there also should be a folder that has your AIM name on it somewhere..it may be inside a folder..so check them all..once again go through it and delete anything in there. then clean out the trash can! :)
as for trust. do your chores, do your homework. when you get good grades on tests bring them home and show him. when you go out, come home a half an hour before curfue... when your going to be late coming home call him before hand so he knows.
I know that this doesnt go under the category of sex but anyways, I just measured and found that my rib size is 33 inches, I looked in my puberty book and it only goes to 30-31 inches(it says that 30-31 inches is 36), so what would 33 inches be. If it helps, I am a AA cup
if you want to find out your bra size go to a store that sells them and ask someone to measure you. like victoria secret, their very helpful there.
Is it normal for girls to have there period for 2 days.
-thanks
yes, completly normal. when you first start your period the cycle isnt going to be on key..its going to be irregular. and sometimes medicine and//or birth control may mess with it aswell. if it keeps on occuring for the next few months ask your mom to go see a doctor.
i'm grounded an not allowed to use the phone tv or computer...a long time ago i heard of a way to get an away message up when your not online and they'll forward the messages pepul leave u to ur e-mail...does anyone kno the name of the website that does it? i rate 5's
im not quite sure about forwarding it to your email addy..but i know that you can forward your im's to your cell phone. all you need to do is go into prefrences then IM chat/mobile and at the bottom set it up.
just leave an away message up while your grownded. you may want to tell your friends you talk to that you wont be on for a few days, so if they need to get ahold of you they have to wait till school..
i like two guys but only one of themm knows and the other has no clue..but im starting to not like the one i told ne more and the other one i absolutely love but he has a gf. and the guy i like alot is my ex and i dont think he likes me ne more. and idk what to do about it all. can someone help me
be honest to the guy you told that you like that you dont like him anymore. dont lead him on. as for the guy you like, he has a girlfriend, so all you can do is just kind of wait it out. be there for him when times get rough with him and his girl. he will notice you. :)
When you eat lolly pops dye gets all over your lips. Does anyone know how to get rid of this? I have blue all over my lips and it's kinda embarrassing. So, does anyone know how to fix this? I'll rate.
just brush your teeth, usually you have to brush a few times but the die does come off! :) and if you feel as if its embarrasing, just laugh and joke around about it. lollypops do that! :)
Aright well I was with my friends last night and one my other friends that wasn't with us, started sayin shit about me, she is pissed off at me because we were out one night with sum other friends and ur crush my best friend was there (before I go one she said that she aways wanted me to be honest with her)aright well she started to get really annoying and i told her the truth about how she was actin like a damn fool. The only reason that she wanted to be there was because her crush was there and I told her that to her face bein honest and now she is really pissed off at me, and she told my best friend that lives in California that I was addicted to smokin wich I wasn't I only smoked once andand now my best friend won't talk to me because she thinks that Im addicted to smokin and she won't talk to me until I quit, wich I have. What the hell should I do. This bitch is tryin to make my life a livin hell!!!
Okay, first off this sounds kind of retarded. (sorry) but, you dont need this friend if the only reason she will chill with you on a certain night is cuz of some guy. honestly, if she is going to act like this, its not worth it at all. She doesnt need to get all pissed off about some guy and you being honest, life goes on. About your best friend, just call her..tell her that your other friend was being a bitch and saying shit. If shes really your best friend she would believe you over anyone else.
x0x-dani
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Hi, I'm 14 and a freshman in highschool. As you know I would have to start thinking about a future job and what I would like. I have 3 things chose. 1) A crime scene investigator 2) a teacher or 3) an interior designer ... now with # 1 I can't stand blood thats coming out of the body in large amounts, would I usually see this if i was a CSI??
yah..if you dont like blood dont do the 1st one. and the 2nd and 3rd you can always double major. im a sophomore in high school, and im in classes for graphic communications//graphic arts. and i love it. i really want to persew both, teaching and writting. and i plan on it too! =)
x0x-dani
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My boyfriend who is also one of my best friend just called me and accused me of cheating and told me never to talk to him again. I know i didnt cheat on him, what do i tell him?
Call him back! Tell him the truth, ask him where he heard that..and why he accused you of something. Talk to him about it. Get everything asituated!
x0x-dani
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