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hey!
ok, so, my name is vanessa! i' a real fun crazy gal =) I'm 19 years old, and about to start my second year of college! i love to challenge myself, to be with my friends, help them out to the max that i can.. mainly reson why am here.. duh lol i love you help people =) and can simply be a great listener. I've been through a lot in my life already... i guess that can be both good and bad. But that means i have some experience about a little bit of everything!
like I said, am in college, am in love with this amazing guy whom i've been with for over a year and a half, am bi, have been in love, have had my heart broken, have been places, study, work, and well, am crazy =) hahaha! in a good way ;-)
so, anyway, ask away anything thats on your mind =) no matter how crazy or whatnot, i'll ceratintly be here to try my best to help =)

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let me start out by saying im a very good student. i have A's in every subject. well last night i was up till 2 A.M doing my homework, and i forgot to do this one science worksheet. today in class, i asked my friend, lets call her Julie, for her worksheet so i can copy it. she gave it to me with no problem. bad move, i know. well i was doing it and the teacher caught me, she just took the paper and said i will talk to you guys later. so later, she called me and julie down to the classroom and asked what happened. i told my teacher that i was over julie's house for a long time and i didnt have time do to my homework so julie felt bad and gave it to me. julie said that i took the paper without asking her, and that is such a frickin lie! she GAVE me the paper, I swear to God on my life she did. now she told my other friend that she's not gonna talk to me anymore, and my friend told me thats what julie said. me and julie are so close. we've been friends since last year but it feels like weve been friends for a lifetime. wtf should i do? SOO sorry this is long/confusing. thank you so much, you have no idea how much it means to me.

i'm really sorry to say this, but your friends doesn't sound like that great of a friend.... if anything, all she seemed to be trying to do is cover herself, try not to get herself in trouble... and then telling your other friends what you say are lies... and not talking to you anymore?? thats just way to much... does she think you did it to get her in trouble or something??? i say try talking to her... make her talk and listen to you.... try to find out why she is reacting or overreacting i would say, the way she is... and I guess take it from there...

good luck!
VB

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So me and this guy that I'm talking to we cuddle a lot, but he only gives me these childish kisses. its annoying me, i want him to kiss me for real, but I'm going to let him come when the time is ready for him...i guess, what should i say for him to really kiss me, or do??? and he also works a lot like 12 hours a day, five days a week. Is that good??? he gets a lot of money, but i want more time with him, and there about to make him manager, is that going to make it worse????

ok, if you feel that he works a lot already and feel that you don't have enough time with him as it is, you're going to feel that him becoming a manager will be a little worse. I'm sure he'll have to work a bit more, and have more resposibility on his hands... but still, remember to be happy for him!
and about the kisses, i believe he's just trying to be cute... i can understand that it might be annoying, and you just want a nice big kiss... so just take the initiative! ...no, seriously, one of hose times that you two are cuddling, turn to look into his eyes, wrap your arms around him, get closer to him, and softly go for his lips..... phew! getting too caught up in the moment

let me know how it goes =)
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awwwww haha. ok, stading up? ...i guess pretty much the same..
when going for a little walk or something just look him in the eyes, holding his hand, and give him a soft little kiss on the lips. tease him a little bit too with little kisses... Use your eyes. before the kiss of course, because, you know, ohterwise that might be a little weird during... anyway, haha, use your eyes, tell him him that you love him... and go for it! =)
He might just absolutely love it! ...how's that?? =D

VB

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I know it's not quite healthy to alter your menstrual cycle, but is there any way I can shorten it? I started on Saturday and it's usually a week long, but I'm really hoping that it will be done by Thursday.

i'm sorry to say that when it comes to periods, there's really not much you can do to shoren it.... trust me, i've had crazy period cycles. Going from not getting it for like 3,4,5 months... to having it for almost over 2 weeks!!!!! horrble really. but, as far as i'm concerned there's really nothing you can do to be certain for sure, that it'll be gone in a certain amount of time... although, exercise and just being fit in general helps... andbesides that, the only hing that i have tried that really has regulated my period has been taking the pill... but thats a pain all by itself lol and a whole nother story... lol
good luck! and hope its gone by when you need it to be gone! =)

Vanessa.

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ughhh .. idkk whats wrong .. if its me .. well i`m on my period .. O.o or if its him O.o i`m startin` to get mad at my boyfriend easily now, lik` .. sometimes he js ASSUMES things. but he plays around lik` that, he js says all these guys name lik` "tony" i dont know tony .. and i`m talkin` `bout my friend & her boyfriend problems... "gary" he`s my bestfriends boyfriend.. "chad" WTFF i DONT EVEN KNOW A CHAD. he`s my boyfriend, then why is he namin` all these guys ??? to me .. i think he plays around too much .. and i tell him, but he seems not to notice that.. and thats it hurtin` me. so i`m not sure if its him or me, i get mad about it though... please help me .. :[

hey there...
ok, i definitely have been here lol sometimes my bf gets me mad soooo easily, and with like the smallest of things. But, specially since you mentioned it, i believe i definitely has a lot to do with your period, and hormones.... and all of their crazyness...
Even though your bf may just be playing and kidding around with you though, still try to sit him down and explain to him how ur feeling. Like really make him listen and try to understand....
well, good luck! =)
hope everything gets better =)
let me know how it goes =)

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