what is cyber sex?? and how do i do it?
(my bf wants to do it while hes in a illinois)
Cyber sex is basically speaking dirty over the internet. Like you say dirty thngs to him and he says som back. Unless he has a camera and you do to you can do visual cyber sex with web cams. Like you fel on your self and he sees it and he does the same and stuff. Hope I helped
Bianca
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My boyfriend really wants to finger me and i just want to know from someone who has gotten fingered before... what should I expect? Thanks. I'll rate anyone with a serious answer.
Well for diffrent people there are diffrent feelings.
my firs time it was ok. I mean its not that big a deal but yeah it does feel good. I guess youll expect to feel horny. But like dont let him do it while your dry bc it will hurt so bad and like you wont want his finger to get stuck.
I hope I helped
Bianca
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This is really embarrasing but...
"Down there" i think has a bad odor (i'm a girl)
Is there anything I can do to stop this? I heard certain foods can make it smell bad, is that true and which ones? Also, is there anything i can put on it or in it or something to make it smell better?
Well That is a major problem.
First off wash it like every day of the week meaning take a shower everyday. There are also some powders you can buy to stop the odor. Use pads. they absorb the oder even if your not on your period. I hope I helped you
Bianca
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Ok i just had sex a few days ago for the first time. We used a condom i made sure of it!! Ever sence like the next day ive been liking having clear stuff come out of me. Its kinda like the stuff sometimes you get before or after your peroid but its not after my peroid or before. I asked my one friend that already had sex and she said no she didnt have anything like that. What does it mean?
*-*thanks a bunch*-*
~*~If your nice about it and dont make fun of me ill rate you a 5*-*
Ok well theres nothing to be afraid of . And I wouldnt make fun of you.
Well it could just be you being horny. Girl have sperm too but it doesnt shoot out like a man. you could just be horny and thats your sperm. Its nbothing to worry about
Bianca
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hey i was just on the phone to my boy friend he lives an hour away and he was just saying how we're not as playful as we use to be (i've had a few home probs just not in the mood) like on the phone playful dissing each other and stuff but im confused about the playful in bed what can i do to make it "playful" thanks!
Well you can do lots of things. you can give lap dances do role playing. Or tease hima little. Make it romantic if you need to. You can look up lots of stuff. I hope I helped you
Bianca
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Hi, I know this might be a stupid question....
My boyfriend and I have fooled around naked, although not had sex. My period is now late, could I be pregnant?
No! Its ok to fool. just as long as the sperm didnt get in the puss then your ok. It might just be coming late. I hope I helped
Bianca
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Hm i have this friend her name is bianca, and i love her to death but she moved, and now i dont kno what to do and i want her to come to my highschool so i wont be so lonely what should i do????
Stephani if you get this I want you to e-mail me so I can fill u in on whats been happening
Bianca
queenbianca2004@yahoo.com
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Everytime I shave..down there..I get these little red bumps.What is a quick way to get rid of them? I rate high.
Its hard to its razor burn. I have that problem too. Try not to shave dry or withour soap. the effect wont be as bad
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ok im 13 and ive been seeing this guy that is 14 for about 3 weeks and like i never get the chance to see him but i talk to him on the fone alot. the one time i met up w/ him in person i was really shy and like didnt even talk to him. im going to see him this weekend and i wanna make it special but how can i get the nerve to talk to him.I really wanna like kiss him and hug hin and stuff but i cant even talk to him. got ne advice of ways that i could flirt w/ him?
Well this boy is your bf isnt he? I had the same prob. I always want them to make the move on me. But I had to changre that. If hes your bf then it shouldnt matter what you do. If he stops you then theres something wrong. Talk to him ask how his day was. Start a conversation. Then go hug him when you first see him. Give him a little peck if your confident enough. Dont be afraid to let him hold you. He might be holding back bc he thinks you dont want him to touch you. Dont let him think that. Hold his hand when you see him. Reashure him and reminde him that you guys are going out. I hope I helped
Bianca
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Sometimes I feel like I'm being really rude to people, but I never know. When I say hello, it's kind of under my breath but I smile and I wave to whoever said hello to me. Sometimes someone will say hello when I'm out biking and I'm not sure if someone said hello to me or to someone else on the street, so I only turn and smile. I realized this at the supermarket when someone I didn't like too much said hi to me, and I said hi under my breath and gave a little wave. They moved by quickly, so it looked like I was waving over my shoulder. I want to seem less rude, but how? Am I even being rude?
Its not being rude. Its probly just that hyour shy. theres nothing wrong with that. I mean you dont hae to say hello to everyone you see bc thats just overdramatic. If someone says hey dont be shy and just say hey back bc theres nothing wrong with that. And if you feel like saying hello tosomeone and they dont say it back doesnt mean there rude either. Hope I helped
Bianca
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okay...i have my end of the year swimming party on monday (today is thursday) and I just got my period. Usually my periods are 3-4 days long...so it is perfect timing in a sense. BUT on Monday I am worried that while I'm at the pool in my bathing suit i'll have a disgusting stain or something. I've never used tampons before but I am ready to start. What my question is...what can I do to have fun at the party while still not having any problems with my period? I need an answer asap! thanks
Well see I use pads so I going out on a limb here. Its probably a good idea to plug up. But just ib case talk to your mom or another female adult you can trust to find out more. It should be ok. Well i hope I helped you
Bianca
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good luck at the party
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ive been dating this guy for 5 months&we really got to know eachother before we even started dating. he ended up getting grounded over the summer for failing spanish&we havent gotten to see eachother since then. we decided it was pointless to date over the summer if we never got to see eachother, so we went on a "break". i think he might be interested in this other girl he just met. she plays basketball with him&his friends all the time. i dont know if he just thinks of her as a friend or more. he said he wants to start dating again as soon as he's allowed to see me again, but i don't know if i should or not. what if he has or had feelings for the other girl? should i trust that he really does care about me&want to stay with me?
Well he must have feeling for you bc he is asking you and not the girl. But if you still feel insicure then you need to talk to him about it. She could just be a friend so dont get all worked up. I hope I helped and good luck
Bianca
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i hang out with my friends at school but i keep very quiet or else someone will start talking crap about me but when im with friends from sports i can relax and just let myself free. when i do something funnywith my freinds at skool they dont think its funny but when i do it with my freinds from softball they laugh soo hard they are crying. but the problem is thAT my friends from sports go to diferent schools than i do. what should i do>?
Those arnt friends. there jerks whpo think there better thatn you!! Stick with your softball freinds they are obviopusly more intrested in wht oyou have to say
Bianca
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m 25..My boyfriend's a rather sexual person but we both never have sex , some time when he touches me i really feel that m not being excited.. by nipple does not get erect & i don't think i cum .. his touches doen't excite me more ! i m being worried abt my sensuality.. please suggest me something. And what does an orgasm feel like for a girl (or anyone)?
You might be the kind that can hold out longer. there is nothing wrong with that. It feels like you are being free. Talk to your bf see if there are other ways. Or you just might not be into him. It doesnt mean your les you just might not like him. or mabye you do like girls. I hope I helped you.
Bianca
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ok so my mum has this friend and i spent some time with him when he came over to stay.I thought he was very nice but the strange thing is he keeps asking me to stay at his house and i am 16 and he is like 30 something.He also keeps telling my mum i am lovely and beautiful do you think that he was just being friendly?because he only asks me to stay at his house and not my mum!
Thats a little to friendly. I wouldnt if I was you. these days you never know whose out there. I hope I helped
Bianca
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I have a friend Luke, and I really like him. As in more than a friend. His girlfriend is a really good friend of mine, and his ex is my best friend. Only one person knows that i like Luke, and thats one of my friends. Im scared that if i tell him i like him, we wont be friends anymore, and if i tell his girlfriend that i like him, there will be a cat fight or something. But his girlfriend does LOVE him, she just likes him kinda. All his girlfriends have been asian, and one of his friends said that he liked asian chicks since he was small. The problem is, im not asian. So i doubt that he will ever like me. But i REALLY like him. Please help!!!
Well I had that problem. My bestfriend was dating the boy I was obsessed with but she didnt know. I got in the middle of it. I told his mom I likd him so she told him. I thought he only dated americans. So he was talking to me and his gf (my bf) found out and we stopped being friends. Then she broke up with him. So we dated for 3 days. He still felt for his ex so he broke up with me to go back out with her. So ive learned to not interfear bc if I would of waitied for them to break up naturally I would of had a better shot. So just put urself in her shoes.. would you like her to interfear?? I wouldnt
I hope I helped you
Bianca
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ok this is kinda weird! My BFFs little brother has beem doing some gross things like making my little sister suck on his dick! And the other day he was snapping my bra! Are famalies are like best friends and My parents and their parents know but it feels so weird even to talk to my friend's little bro. II want things to go back to normal but I neeeed help on deciding wut to do!
You need to sit and have a serious talk with both your families includiding him and your sis. Tell them whats going on and how you feel about it. Its not right to do that. And if you feel itds not right you should say. So if it continues after that its probably best to be distant. I hope I helped
Bianca
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Well I have a biig problem! I like my best friend's brother. He's a year younger than me and he's reeeeally cute! I think he likes me cause everytime I'm over her house he flirts with me and gets all close to me and stuff. I want to go out with him but I'm afraid that my best friend would be sooo mad! Cause she like hates her brother and stuff and so yea. I really need some help! I rate high!
Wow I had the same problem twice!!!
First you need to talk to your best friend. Let her know how you feel about him. And if shes ok with it let him know next
Secondly if you start dating do not start to drop your friend Boyfriends are great but friends are forever. So like if you want to be alone, go aon a date bc trust me I went to my bfs house and I was with her bro doing....
stuff and she got so angry with me.
So dont forget her bc if yall break up sdhe will still be there. Well I hope I helped you
Bianca
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Okay in my last question I asked about how I should ask this guy out and it ended up being that he asked me like 2 weeks ago. Now theres this girl in our class, big boobs, yeah I know grade 7? but anyways she's like sugar and the guys in our class are wasps. If she's standing alone anywhere they'll rush up to her, annoying. For the past little while she's been holding hands with the guy who asked me out. She likes to hug him in front of me and she acts like their together. She has a boyfriend but I still don't get. I haven'y blown up in her face yet but I will soon. His friends name is Derek and he asked them to like lay off on what their doing cause it's annoying me but they haven't. I want him to just say no to her but I don't think he can. What should I do?
Well he must be having mixed emotions. But you need to stand tall. Ask him if hes still intrested in dating. And if he is go for it with him. Then make sure the new girl knows. Tell her to back off. He shouldnt be the only one telling her to lay off. You stand by your man. Let her know your willling to put up a fight. Dont ever be afraid. Let them both know your not joking around. I hope I helped
Bianca
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let me know how it went
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im trying to find some songs for my iPod... and i honestly have run out of ideas!! what are some good like love songs for a 15 year old girl?? i listen to like all music.. s if that helps!! thanks!
Well you have to have songs that you like. Explore your radio stations. And if you like love songs then listen to your rents music bc theres not that many good one sung by our kinds of artists. I hope I helped
Bianca
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