Well, I'm a serious sometimes funny type of person and usually my problem evolves in my love life :) ain't as lucky as you are.lol. I'm 16 and somewhat emotional. They say one of my assets is being sensitive to the feelings of others and one of my bad habits is playing with my hands while looking for words.
E-mail: phinyf@lycos.com
Gender: Female
Location: Philippines
Occupation: student
Age: 16
Yahoo: friendly_f16@yahoo.com
MSN: friendly_f16@hotmail.com
Member Since: April 13, 2005
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my b/f is such a jerk he only cares about himself. He calls me names and screams at me. He used to push me around. I can never be mad im always the wrong one. He allways says the meanest things. I go through so much at home and he dont care he still calls me names and says he hates me. (link)
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I think your bf doesn't care for you. He doesn't even respect you as her girlfriend. So better late than never. Act now! Ease out of that relationship and find someone who respects you and loves you for you deserve that. All of us deserves that.
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ok yeah its me again but my problem is that i like this kid and well hes my brothers friend and one night my brother said that he was feeling me and that he wanted to go to the movies with me but the thing is that i know my brother wouldnt allow it but he seemed so serious but i really like him so than i decided befor i answer i would ask i asked the kid if him and my brother were going out friday and he said yeah but i should of asked about me but now im making small talk and my brother hasnt brought it up and idont know if he likes me help what should i do (link)
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Tell your brother first that you like his friend or if you're not comfortable with that idea then just show it through actions. When your brother's friend comes to visit then show to your brother and him that you like him. It'll tell your brother that you like his friend and ofcourse the kid that you like him.
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Well the thing is...my mate (who iv known for all of my life, n i kinda trust him) fancies my other friend from my school. He wants to set me up with his mate, who sounds a nice enough guy. he wants to meet up, shall i or shall i not? saz x (link)
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It depends on what you really feel because no one can force you to do things their way. If you feel, it would be okay and nothing will get lost from you then go on. If you think it's a waste of time then don't. But since, you trust your mate then go on. Try it. Who knows? he might be the one for you.
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ya ok at the begining of the year i went out wit this kid, he was really nice and everything but i dumped him for another guy after a couple months of going out. well im single now and i like the kid again, alot but i kno he doesnt really wanna go out with me again cuz i hurt him and now he's a lot more popular with the girls then wen i was wit him. should i still go for him and try to convince him im not gunna hurt him again or should i just let it go? (link)
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I think you should know if he has feelings for you still and think also what will he think if I just go back to him? Maybe he'll think that I went back to him because he's popular already. Try to make things slow first and gauge your actions and think of the consequences of your actions.
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Ok so this guy Robert asked me out and i told him i had to think about it. Well just yesterday i realized that i liked his friend Forrest alot so i told my friend Brittany. Well Brittany told her ex who's the brother of Forrest and Forrest told Robert. So this morning Robert asked me about it and i told him it wasn't true and he believed me. Well in 2nd period i told my friend Justin about all of it and that i really do like Forrest. Robert is in the same class as me and Justin so Justin told Robert so now i think he's upset. I dont know if i should talk to him or just give him some space. But i really do want to talk to him about the whole thing cause before all of this happened i was going to go out with him. So do i talk to him or just give him space and wait until he comes and talks to me? what should i do?
Thankyou for any advise you give.
I'm 15 and a female (link)
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I think he knows already that you like his friend and not him. So why not get over it and talk to him right away? The more you waste time, the more it'll get worse
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i have blackheads and i dunno what to do!..i use clean and clear, phisoderm and they both dont work! so i tried clean and clear and that didnt help either!..does anybody know how to help me?!?!?!? (link)
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Lat time, I have so many pimples and etc. but It slowly disappeared when I used a medical soap that specializes in slowly taking off pimples. It's just cheap and the cover is yellow. I forgot the name but I suggest that if you have a sensitive face you use this.
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Okay heres the deal...
Ive been dating this GREAT guy i mean he's perfect..But im not exactly the most loyal person..So over spring break i lost mah virginity 2 some one else..Yeah i kno its bad and n a way i regret it..But the otha guy well call him Will is soo hot, popular, cute, sweet, and hes jus a lil freak and we mesh good togetha. PLus i think (i know) i could really stop my game for Will which would be a HUGE achievement for me!! Now on 2 mah boifriend again well call him Jay. Jay is okay lookin, sweetheart, says he loves me 2 death, hes perfect ecspect..he cant make me laugh like Will and he thinks hes funni when hes not @ all..Me & Will jus have more n common PLUS he took my virginity!
Well i dont want 2 be with Jay anymore but im n fear of hurting him AND everyone says ill be making a huge mistake because hes so good 2 me.
But I would prefer 2 date Will jus for the simple fact we have more n common..
But i dont know what 2 do OR HOW 2 DO IT!!
-Caught Up- (link)
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I think you're in a tight situation there :). Remember, once you'll ease out of a relationship, chances are you can't return in it the easy way. Jay loves you but apparently you don't love him. If that's the case, tell him that. It's better hurting him now that it's still early than hurting him more when it's too late.
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im a guy who is shy and i like this girl who is like my best friend and i want to have a bigger relationship with her, what should i do to get her attention? please help!! thanks (link)
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Believe me. It's really hard if the guy is shy and the girl is conservative because no one will do the first step. You know what? girls have sensitive feelings. They know what you are thinking and they know who likes them with a few exceptions ofcourse. If you like to catch her attention, try to always smile at her. Smiling is a tentative step to show you care for her. Also be open to her slowly and slowly and you'll just know she's getting herself to you.
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Okay my boyfriend(Steve) means alot to me and i mean alot to him. I care about him so much w/ like everything i've got, i am so afraid of losing him, me and him have been thru way too much for us to break up now. We've been together for like 9 months now and he has become the love of my life, the person i wanna be with forever, he has this friend(Shana) and they've been freinds for like mad long before i ever came in the picture and i dont want them to stop talkin but at the same time its like i am VERY VERY jealous of the girl, i dont know why i am but i am. Its really weird cause theres other girls he talk to and i really dont care about them, but her i do, and he's going into the air force in 75 days and i know for a fact that i wont do nothin wrong while hes gone , and i trust him but what if something happens and he finds someone else and doesnt come back for me.. In the past i have done shit that maybe gives him a reason to not trust me like i cheated on him ONCE and never again and i lied to him about cigarettes, but after all that and we talked about it i dont think i could lie or cheat on him again, the reason why i know why i wouldnt cheat is because that was like at the beginning of the relationship and all the shit we've been thru after that happened i dont think i could do that to him, hes the reasom why i made it thru all of it(it was a big mother-daughter-moms bf thing).. i love him alot, i dont even think LOVE is the exact word but its the closest. He is the best tbig thats stepped into my life and i am afraid of losing him, we also argue alot too, and we both accuse each other of things but then we talk it out. please what do u think is the future for us?
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I think you need to talk again. I mean sort things out. Find out if he really really liked this girl you're talking about. In my part, I wasn't even lucky in love but you are luckier since your love became your boyfriend. Try to trust each other more then things will really fit out.
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