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ok this may be long but i really need help!!!!
ok i live with my dad, i havn't started my period yet, and i just turned 13 yrs old so i'm at the age where i'll be "changing" well i cant bring up the subject with him because its extremely awkward.... but one day my mom got a pack of 36 pads, a little box of tampons, and razors (cheap). she just gave me the bag and said if i had any questions i could ask her, but I'M NOT GONNA ASK HER. that would be extremely awkward as well and dont tell me to just say it and be honest! kuz i won't do that. i just shave my under arms and niether of my parents know so i can't shave my legs. but i was wondering if i could open a pad and see wat it is like fot a second than put in bak in the the paper package thing it came in, then use it for when i do get my period. and if yall have anything else that yall could tell me, i would sure appreciate it.
P.S. and can't go to ANYONE ELSE!
thanks in advance
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well i think when you start it
tell your dad that you started
like i started 2 weeks ago
and i live with both parents
and i didnt tell them
i just acted normal
but i told my sister
and i wanted her to tell
she made everything better
she told my mom
and my mom doesnt really care
she knows best
and yeah she also knew i was gonna start it soon
so yeah
also dont take it out
cuz the adhesive layer on the pad might catch lint from the underwear
and stop working so it will shift when you do need a pad
ask a sister or your mom if you have questions because they had to go thru the same thing when they were little
also dont be afrais to tell them because sooner or later
you are gonna have to tell themm about other things like
bf's , sex , marriage , pregnancies etc
so dont be ashamed
you are totally fine
good luck
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okay well tonight my boyfriend was at my house
and like the whole time he was there he had a boner.. sorry if this is really gross but im wondering if this is like normal or not.. but anyways we went and ate dinner.. and then after dinner i gave him a hj but he like couldnt orgasm.. this was my first time doing this.. he said i was doing it right but i know i wasnt going fast enough but thats because i was scared my parents were gonna walk in and he said he wasnt in a very comfortable position and that hes never jacked off in that position before. is this normal? like should i feel bad that i wasnt able to give him an orgasm.. especially since he told me that hes had little ones when we make out? and sometimes he gets wet just from me touching him outside his pants? (link)
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no dont feel bad . it was your 1st time
and at least you were daring to go to those limits
ahahah
but he isnt in this for the sexual part
he is in the relationship because he loves you and is comfortable around you .
you must be a very pretty girl to let anything bad happen to you .
just live life the way you want and have fun
keep taking chanced
hopei helped
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ok if a person is doing a pyramid in cheerleading and the person that is supposed to catch the falling person doesn't catch them and that person brakes a bone. would the person who dropped the falling person get sued or have to pay anything? (link)
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no .
no one will get sued .
it is a state law that in order to perform in a sport the athlete needs some type of insurance .
so if they get hurt
the insurance will pay for it
and its not your fault
no one is to blame
possibly gravity
hope i helped !!
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So this might be the wrong category, but whatever.
I HATE having hair "down there", but I'm scared to shave it or anything cause I don't wanna mess up, or cause like rashes and that sorta stuff, and I am NOT having some stranger do it. So how do i shave it? and what should i know? (link)
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use a lot of soap
and shave the direction the hair grows
if you go against the hair
it will cause irritation and rashes and razor burn .
an ordinary razor will be fine but try to make sure it is new and clean
hope i helped !
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what is the normal age for a girl to get her first kiss? and when did you guys have your first kiss?
because i'm 15/f and i've never been kissed before. (link)
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you are smart because your first kiss if you try to plan it out . . . willl be a nightmare .
i got my 1st iss when i was 14 .
yuck
it was gross it was just a peck but the guy was 2 yrs younger than me
i was mad at myself
but yeah
any age
dont force it
let nature take its toll
hahah
hope i helped !!
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I'm going on a trip with my dad for spring break, only him (not my mom or my sister). We're going to Japan for a week, and honestly, I have nothing to talk about with him. He's home every other month, because after that he's out traveling for his job. He's funny and young, and I like him, but I just don't know what we'll talk about.
I really need help because I don't want this trip to be awkward! Thanks! (link)
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talk to him about school
traveling
your school
just telll him how much you like the vacation
and being away from home!!
hope i helped
have a nice spring break
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Hey! well my birthday is coming up in May and I'm undecided whether to get the hot-pink ipod nano or the SanDisk Sansa e250 2 GB MP3 Player. I mean the SanDisk has more features and is at a cheaper price, but I've been hearing some cons about it. idk, what do you guys think?
I also need something that's durable! please-I want my, or parents, money worth.
thanks (link)
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go with the ipod
my friend had the sandisk
and it got alll scratched
the ipod has a variety of cases unlike sandisk
happpy bday !!
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Is one kiss considered "cheating"? (link)
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yes . it sucks . i had to go thru that once !
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OK i pick my lips 24/7
i pick them until they start bleeding, and they hurt ALL the time
I use chapstick all the time, and never go any where with out.
So can anyone giving me somthing that'll maybe help my lips stop pealing.
i don't want chapsticks though (link)
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instead of biting and messing with your lips play with your hair or something that will keep you occupied .
and for the lips . . . .
try
carmex
blistex
vaseline
and vitamin e lip balm will work too
hope i helped !!
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im 13 my girl broke up wit me 20 mn ago this
other girl i thank likes me
and ive been acting silent and hangin out wit
tha gang cant be any thang i wear because i wear usually is my hoodie and baggy pants
wut do you thank she like s me 4
o yea
also usu ally haVE MY element skateboard back pack and my skate shoes always
and the principel went through me locker the other and found my skateboard and the rest of the gangs skate boards b/c we kinda messed up the sholl on our boards so u thank she likes me 4 the bad boy skate r or the gang or the silant
becausae ive been in in school suspechin 4 7 days now
and i dont know wut up give advise (link)
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umm pal
i think she likes you
but dont bet on it
and if she does
cuz the badboy part
i guess
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Hi.
After thinking long and hard about what I want to do with my life, I've decided I want to be a body piercer.
I love body piercings, and are facinated with them, so why not do something I love for a living?
Now, I've done some research and have came up with nothing, How do I get started with piecing?
I doubt you can walk into a tattoo shop and say, "Yo, I wanna be a piercer."
Is there any classes or anything I have to do?
Any help/advice will be greatly appreciated.
Thanks. (link)
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well my friends mom is a piercer
and i asked her the same question
well
she had to take some classes
the classses will be completed in like about 6 months
she owns her own business and makes a lot of money
you need to know first aid
and cpr
because you can get serious pain from a recent pierce
most piercests also learn hot to do tattoos
hope i helped
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14/f
theres a guy who i've been inlove with for about 2 years since we've went out then broken up. he totally ignored me for half a year and i was depressed pretty much. then we became friends with benifits. it was suppost to be secret but i told and some word got out, he basically hated me for 2 months. then he would tell me he wanted to be friends with benifits. this went on and off threw out april threw october in 2006. we had sex the first time over summer then he said he never should have because he loved someone else. he never had feelings for me just lust, but i had feelings for him (stupid i know).. i just cant say no to him. then when had amazing sex in october and he said we had to stop bc he was inlove with someone else. it hurt. for around 5 monthes i tried to forget about him. we never talked. then a week ago we started talking again and it seemed like we were normal friends. now we plan on having sex another time soon because we can't stop lusting over each other. i know he likes someone else and this little secrect hookup has to end sometime like before, i just don't know what i should do.. have sex with him or just keep putting it off and avioding him. i really don't know if i love him but i just feel a strong feeling towards him and its so intense. and when we'd hook up he seemed not even to care but then when we would finally talk about what we did he would admit a bunch of stuff. he can't show feelings at all. im so sorry this is confusing, but i just need comfort. i don't want to tell anyone else about this whole issue because its my responsiblity to make sure no one finds out. i mean if everone knows ive done it 3 times before i was even 14 they'd never stop talking about me. just please help (link)
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hello .
im very sorry to hear about this . and i am also sorry but i must tell you the truth .
well since he is your ex , try not to get involved with him . i dont believe you are or were in love with him . it might have just been lust like you said . but i dont know your emotions . but if he is involved in another girl , then dont get involved with that drama . i think he is just using you for sex . dont fall in that trap . you must be too pretty and too nice to get your heart broken like that ... all i am going to tell you is , you should move on and find someone you truly love . you will feel much better about yourself .
and also try not to tell anyone that you have had sex , because they might go around calling you like a dirty [whore , slut , etc .] .
you are a very smart girl .
good luck
and if you need anything
dont be afraid to ask
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how do you really erase limewire songs, because when you right click it and hit delete, i dont think it really gets deleted...so is there a right way to delete certain limewire songs? (link)
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well it is supposed to delete the songs that way
but in case it doesnt
then
go to start
my music
and the songs should be there
if not then go to shared documents
and click on music
and your songs should be there
then you delete what ever songs you want
hope i helped !
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i don't see how tampons work for swimming.. wouldn't it absorb all of the water? then turn it into reddish-bloodish-water and it get all in the water? or the tampon would get so full that it could absorb anymore blood? i don't get it.. please explain. (link)
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good question
well
actually no
the tampon since it is inside of you
its so deep in there that the water wont really get in you
its only there to absorb blood
hope i helped !
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so, i want to lose 10 pounds so im trying to eat healthier. i normally eat cheezits and fruit snacks but today i got those uncrustables (pb n j thing) and a bag of chips only because i was really hungry. but would the pb n j be healthy for me to eat everyday at lunch? (link)
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yeah
those are delicious and nutritious
haha
i love them
they are also on the list of foods that prevent diabetes
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14/f
Okay so there is this guyy, and hes cute but i wouldnt say he's the hottest guy ive ever seen;; or atleast in our school. He's been my best friend literally foreverr. I've known him since atleast kindergarten. Not a lot of people like him as in more then a best friend (as in a boyfriend). Lately i've been noticing when ever im around him i get nervous and flirty. I've had atleast 4 boyfriends before him so its not just a 'first crush' type of thing. This kid is my bestfriend. I can tell him everything! The one thing i cant tell him, is the one thing i want to tell him!!!! That im in love with himm, :[. I don't know how to tell him. People have told him that i like him and that hasnt changed anything in between us, except... he's been getting all flirty and nervous too :). I am so in love with him. He's the nicest most sweetest boy everr (link)
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hmm
well
i think that you should just sit down
and talk it out
tell him how you really feel
i fell in love with my best friend
it works out
but then
i realized
i was too involved in school and sports
so we are on a steady break
but i mean you and him will work out just fine !!
hope i helped !!
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14/f
Ok well every since i was little mayber like 4 or 5 i have never wiped after i went pee, i would never get any infections and it wouldnt bug me, and atually it would bug me more if i wiped, so my question is, is there anything wrong with me? (link)
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nope
nothing is wrong with you
you grew into a habit
and its very money wise
i mean think of all the money your family has to go through for toilet paper and what not
i mean
thats smart
sometimes i dont wipe either
but good for you
hope i helped !
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Female, 5'7"
I am not really comfortable with my height, because all my friends are around 5'3-4", and I feel like a giant. Anwyays, I weigh about 152 lbs. Im pretty atheltic, and my arms are "big" because of the sports I play, as well as my legs, and you can clearly see the definition in my calf's. I dont think im REALLY fat, but is this too much.. should I lose some weight??? (link)
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this site might help
if you think you should lose weight
dont lose it rapidly
just take it slowly
run like a mile a day
then
1 and 1/2 then so on
also eat healthy
http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/
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Does anybody have any home remedies to cure dry skin on the face? (link)
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hello
im sorry about your dry skin
i have the same problem
here is some help
i wash my face with a mud treatment [the mud from the dead sea is the best !!]
i leave the mud on for about 30 minutes then with warm water i wash it off
the mud tends to be a little pricy [mine was $80]
OR
you can go to a beauty store or somewhere
and get a pack of bath salts [they will exfoliate the dead skin]
and if they are big salt grains ,
put them in a blender just to make them smaller
and putthe smaller grains in a little cup and add i tiny bit of milk and a tiny bit of honey
and gently scrub it on your face
warning
if it hurts
use a smaller amount
and scrub more gently
and for next time ,
try to make the salts smaller by blending them for a few more seconds
also
you can get shea butter or any type of fragrnce free lotion to put on your face
hope i helped
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Sorry about the wrong category btw! Well I have this important party to attend on sunday. I am worried to get pimples so I decided i'd use the clean and clear acne spot treatment on my whole face....will it work? Will it harm my skin? (link)
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i have sensitive skin
and i rarely get break outs
but when i do
i wash my face with a mud treatment the mud from the dead sea is the best !!
i leave the mud on for about 30 minutes then with warm water i was it off
the mud tends to be a little pricy [mine was $80]
OR
you can go to a beauty store or somewhere
and get a pack of the dead sea bath salts
and if they are big
put them in a blender just to make them smaller
and put it in a little cup and add i tiny bit of milk and a tiny bit of honey
and gently scrub it on your face
warning
if it hurts
use a smaller amount
and scrub more gently
and
for next time
try to make the salts smaller by blending them for a few more seconds
but as for now
the clean and clear will work fine
hope i helped
if you need anything
just ask !!
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