(A)ge:18
(B)irthday:Feb26,1987
(C)olors:Pink & Lavender
(D)ream guy:My hunnie
(E)yes:Brown
(F)ears:Mice & Snakes
(G)reatest things:My babe, Friends, Nathan, Fam.
(H)air:Carmel..Real color-Brown
(I)ntrests:Doing hair,wedding planning, interior
(J)ealous of:Skinny people.
(K)indness:Help people with problems
(L)ocation:Federalsburg
(M)ovies:Bewitched,Mean Girls.
(N)ame:Amanda
(O)bsession:Friends,& Boyfriend
(P)erfection:Hair & nails
(Q)uestion:How come guys dont have feelings?
(R)ole model:My mom
(S)chool:Colonel Richardson
(T)alent:Making things*Creative*
(U)niqueness:My personality
(V)ery best thing about me:I can chear people up
(W)orst thing about me:Shopaholic
(X)tras:Im a mommy's girl
(Y)ummies:pickles
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about a year ago i lost my virginity to the guy who i thought i was in love with. we were together for about 7 or 8 months after that. we would always just hold each other and make each other laugh and i still love him so much! but we got in trouble together(has nothing to do with this story so i just won;t go into details) and now we can see each other. about a month after that happened he got a girlfriend andi started dating this who i really like but i don't think i love him yet. we are both cool with seeing other people now but i know it secretly rips us up inside. but we still manage to sneak around and see each other from time to time. and i know that we can never ever be together again so it just makes it harder every time we see each other cuz i miss him and i want him back so bad. and he always does the little things that he knows drives me crazy about him and i do the same. i know i should move on but i couldn't go on living knowing that i am never going to see him or be able to talk to him again. what should i do?? please help. i think i might be hurting myself more then helping. (link)
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You should stop seeing him I went through the same thing that you are going through now. and let me tell you it was soo hard my parents were giving me advice on what to do but i never listened cause i just wanted to be with him just like that song "love is blind" He is playing both you and his new girl the only way that you are going to stop getting your self hurt is to stop seeing him all together but then again you can see him but just not mess with him. I see my ex all the time and we are good friends now we hang out but we dont mess around that because when he left me to be with another girl we still talked on the phone as good friends. and thats what you need to do to get over him, find someone else but dont jump into a relationship with them just be there friend and take it slow and you never know what it could end up being and maybe in the long run you and him will be back together.. So just stop messing with him cause he knows that he can come back anytime he wants to get some and thats were your going to get mixed feelings and get hurt even more.I hope I helped..
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ok, condoms...
good or bad?
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Condoms are always good. It saves you from getting pregnant and from catching something. Cause just think do you have enough to support a baby? or do you think anyone else is gonna want to be with you if they found out that you caught something? But if this man is the one that your marrying or what not and you all are trying to have a baby then no condom but for the mean time save your self from anything that is bad to happen.Hope I helped..Rate me..
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okay...i have my end of the year swimming party on monday (today is thursday) and I just got my period. Usually my periods are 3-4 days long...so it is perfect timing in a sense. BUT on Monday I am worried that while I'm at the pool in my bathing suit i'll have a disgusting stain or something. I've never used tampons before but I am ready to start. What my question is...what can I do to have fun at the party while still not having any problems with my period? I need an answer asap! thanks (link)
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What you should do is get a dark suit like black that way if anything happens then no one well know cause they cant see through it.. Hope I helped.
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im 16 f. well i had this boyfriend but we broke up about five months ago and then he started txting me saying that he still loved me and asking me if i felt the same, well the thing is i do, i always have loved him we went out for like seven months and ive never been closer to anyone. well the next day i was txting my friend to tell her what he had been saying and i accidentally sent it to him. he then txt me bak asking me what i was tlaking about because he hadn't txt me in weeks so what am i suposed to think? i covered up by saying it was someone else i was talking about b/c i didn't know what to say but what does this mean? is he interested or not? please help b/c im really confused! (link)
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I think that you should just play plain hard to get .. Let him know that his little games dont bother you.And he will see that you dont care about him and he will want you back. Besides it almost summer do you really want a guy? Just dont let him know that his little games bother you.
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Hi,
Ok, so this guy has asked me out for the longest time. about 5 minutes ago he ask me out again and i turned him down, again, and he was like 'well if we cant go out can we be friends with benifits? like blow jobs, fingering, etcetera... ' and ive noticed myself feeling more attraction to him lately just not enough to be in a relationship with him. but there is that need for sexual attention from an attractive guy, you know? so i dont know what to do?? help please!! (link)
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I dont think you should be his "friend with benifits" because then guys will see you ass a whore and that your easy and that is why every guy would want to be with you. You need a guy that will treat you good and wants you for you.Dont put your self out there like that .Hope I helped.
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I was wondering if anybody knew how to get very wavy curls that look natural? Exactly like the ones that Mischa Barton always has. Any help is greatly appreciated..oh and no rude comments, please!
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I used to have the same problem but what I do to make my hair have curls is when I get out of the shower I dry my hair really good with the towel.Dont brush it at all .. Then I take a whole bunch of moose and put it all in my hair and scrunch it.Then put gel in there and scrunch it then throw it up in a mess bun and spray it.Either let it air dry or take a blow dry and dry your hair all over then when you take your hair down spray and scrunch and it should work.It works for me.Hope I helped.
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ok im 13 and ive been seeing this guy that is 14 for about 3 weeks and like i never get the chance to see him but i talk to him on the fone alot. the one time i met up w/ him in person i was really shy and like didnt even talk to him. im going to see him this weekend and i wanna make it special but how can i get the nerve to talk to him.I really wanna like kiss him and hug hin and stuff but i cant even talk to him. got ne advice of ways that i could flirt w/ him? (link)
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Just be your self dont be shy. If you are shy just let him know that your shy.Maybe he is a little shy to but doesnt want to tell you. Sometimes its harder to tell if a guy is shy then what it does to tell if a girl is. Just act your self when you are around him and soon you will warm up to him..
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My name is stephanie, and I bhave beeen dating my boyfriend for a month now.But here's the twist! My BF(Chris)asked me to hsve sex with him after a band dance. I told him no, b/c I'm not ready to sexualy active just yet! Unexpectingly he said ok I'll respect that b/c I love. I figured that excuse would by me time, and it did! But now he wants more reasons as to why I can't have sex with him. But see what gets me is is that he's telling me he wants to have sex, but when I say no he's ok with what I decide, but he asks repeating , but never makes any kind of action leading to sex. I'm confused! WHY IS HE GIVING ME MIXED SIGNALS?
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Just tell him that you are not ready to have sex and that everytime he keeps asking you that it bothers you. Tell him that when you are ready to have sex then you will tell him.. FOr him not to rush you. Dont let any guy make you do something that you are not ready to do.Hope I helped.
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okay me and my boyfriend usually use a condom but about three weeks ago we just used the withdrawal method i wasnt ovulating(i know this becasue ive always had a perfect 28 day cycle) i took a pregnancy test two weeks after which came back negative. i havent missed my period nor do i have any of the symptoms but i am a worry wart i dont think im pregnant but i need a second opion????what do you think?
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Well you do have a chance that you might be pregnant cause the pull out method can get you pregnant the same way . But I would wait a while if you havent had your period in 2 weeks try and take another test.Nest time use a condum.Hope I helped.
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Hi, I take dance class and I'm in the marching band. And I have dance tonight and I'm also supposed to play at graduation. Dance is from 5-8 and graduation is from 6-whenever. So I can't do both. But I have to, lol. For dance, my show is June 17, and I just got new pointe shoes, and I need to go to dance as much as possible to break them in, in time for the show. But I have to go to band, too, because we're turning in our uniforms afterwards. And plus, my band director gets really mad if you don't go to these kinds of things, except if it's an emergency or something (ex. having surgery, family death, etc.) So I don't know what to do! I'd rather go to dance if that helps. I was thinking about asking my mom or dad to drop off my uniform after graduation and telling my band director I was sick. Oh, and if I miss a dance class, I have to make it up, and I HATE making up classes. So what should I do? Please help.
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Well what one do you like better do you like going to dance classed better or being in the band? School is almost over so he is only going to be mad at you for a little while and forget about it durning summer.. So I think that you should go to your dance class and tell your parents to tell him you were sick..
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My boyfriend just broke up with me 2 hours ago IN SCHOOL! he just wants a break so how can i make him want me??!!!
PLease answer!!
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I always wondered the same thing but in time i realized that you cant make someone want you if he really loves and cares about you then he will come back.. In the mean time its almost summer and your gonna be wanting to have fun with your friends. But just give him his space and sometime cause if you push and push him he might never come back..Hope I helped.
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I'm a 16 yr old girl. About a month and a half ago me and my bf broke up. I broke up with him because he kept running off and getting in trouble and was acting really immature. So now we are just friends, and seems comfortable with it but I know he isn't. One minute he acts like he is cool being friends with me, and then the next minute he begs for me back and to get a second chance. But I'm not giving him another chance because he can't ever change and I know it. I've told him many times that I'm not taking him back. At first I was nice, but I have even cussed him out because he was getting so clingy and annoying. He kept calling and showing up places where I would be just to "see me". He can't take the hint. I told him that if he doesn't want to be friends and can't handle that then we shouldn't talk anymore because he's acting like a stalker and it's getting really annoying. So I finally thought he had moved on. He got a new girlfriend and everything was cool. He wasn't calling as much anymore until out of nowhere he starts up again. He started calling all the fucking time and sending me creepy emails saying how sexy I am, how he misses me, and that he loves me.... while he has a fucking gf. So I told him off and then I find out he broke up with his gf and he is telling everyone we are getting back together. Is there any way that I can get this guy to take a hint b/c I have seriously tried everything and he just doesn't get it! Help! (link)
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Maybe you should answer the phone when he calls and try to avoid him. In the mean time find a new man or hang out with your friends so that he gets the hit himself that your through with him.Hope I helped.
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Every year our school has this "End of the Year Award Ceremony" thing, where you get awards for certain things from throughout the year, and some people perform. I am one of those people. My friend is playing the piano and I'm singing to Amazing Grace. I am so nervous!! Does anyone know of a way I can become less nervous and more comfortable when I go up to sing so my voice isn't cut short?
Signed,
Nervous Performer (link)
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Just dont look at all the people look at the wall all the way in the back and just block everyone out. Just think of it as when you and your friend was practicing the song at home. Hope that I helped you.Hope you do great.
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My "friend" always talked about me behind my back and i got sick of it so i told her that i was. She acted like she didnt care becouse we are totally different ppl and she was with the friends i don tlike. what do i do? (link)
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Just dont let it get to you when she see's that it does not get to you then she will end up giving up on it. So just give up on worrying about it and show her you dont care what she thinks.Hope I helped you.
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