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Me and my best friend both like the same guy, and obviously we both know about it. We think he likes both of us too, but we're not 100% sure. If he does like both of us we're not sure what to do because we both like him. I was thinking that we could let him decide, but if he picks her (which I figure he will cause I think she's pretter than me) I'll probably feel hurt. And it's probably the same with her! Does anyone have any ideas?? (link)
heyy .. let him pcik like you said and just because you think she is prettier doesnt mean he will pick her he could be looking for personality or something

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I am overweight and I want to lose about 20 pounds. I've tried dieting and I just can't do it. I try to excercise but I forget sometimes. Does anyone have suggestions of what I can do? I'm hoping to lose it this summer too. I'm 13/f. (link)
heyy .. uhh eat low fat foods and drink diet coke and water go very low if possible none on the burrt and cream cheese and get active join a cheerleading dance or track team or even gymnastics or swim team something actice and run around the block

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I am going to the beach in 2 weeks. Its about an 8 1/2- 9 hour drive which means we will get there about 10 1/2 - 11 hours after we leave (were leaving at 6 in the morning) What are some fun games or things to do in a car? Acualy a Mini Van. My two sister and going to be in the backa nd my parents in the fornt and i have both middle seats to my self. So What are some intersting things to do? I am going to write notes to my boyfriend and i am going to lissen to music and maybe write poems. I may buy a magazine too. What are someother fun things to do in the long car trip?

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Lotz of Love
&Hearts; Meg &Hearts;
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heyy .. umm you already have some good ideas with music letter poetry and magazine reading so umm you could try these things called mad libs there sorta fun umm this might sound nerdy but game boys are sorta fun lol oh yea and laptops are the best you can go on aim or aol and websites and all sorts of things umm bring portbale dvd player and watch movies also maze books or word search or crossword puzzles are good or even talk on a cell phone

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me friends are in this fight and I dont know how i am supposed to help my friend! (link)
heyy .. have them both sit down and talk to both of them and work it out have both of them state the problem state how it happened and state how to solve it

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what web site can i go to to find out how i can turn some one in to chid welfare (link)
heyy .. umm im not sure but check the yellow pages or the interent

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There is a guy that I like and I’ve never kissed before and I was thinking of going for a French kiss if I get to kiss him, but then I though about it and I started wondering if it’s a turn off for guys if you French kiss them on the first kiss. Can you, please, give me your opinion? And my second question is, do guys judge you on the way you kiss, is it very important to them if you are a good kisser or not? (link)
heyy .. umm go for the french because most guys like it better but it varys depends on the guy you have if he is sorta nerdy then regular if he is like a jock or skaater french and its important on how you kiss but dont worry dont stop the kiss cause of that because if you dont french kiss alot you wont get good you need practice

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My husband bought leg quarters last night, and I'd like to cook them for dinner tonight. But I have no idea what to do with them. Can anyone give me a good recipe for leg quarters, or tell me where I can find one?

Thanks, I'm kind of new at this homemaker thing! (link)
heyy .. umm whitewhine sauce tastes really good on leg quarters so try making them with that but if you totally clueless on how to even start making them get a recipe book or go to http.//www.google.com and searh for recipes there

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kay i thkn my whoel family hates me > my mom is acting like she doesnt want me she makes me do all the work in the house. if she could she could probly put me up for adoption. but i kno my dad wont let her. i kno my dad loves me. i want ot run but i ahve no where to go. the rest of my family livies 2 hours away. she acts like she has to take me places > she does it because she has to not because she loves me. i have no clue what to do??? pleaz help me!!!

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heyy .. okay go to family conselling it helped my family stay together and after that if it doesnt work just call your other family members that live two hours away and have them come pick you up in the night but try the conselling 1st

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My guy friends giving me hints that he likes me. There are plenty of them except he likes another girl & our whole class knows that he does (ever her). Sometimes it seems like if he likes her & could tell her then if he likes me why couldn't he tell me? The signs are big & they're really hinting toward liking (talks to me on the phone for a long time, memorized my phone number, always finds an excuse to touch me, gazes into my eyes etc). How can I confront him about this? (link)
heyy ,, well if you like him you need to make the 1st move and show him that your interested or even bring it up while your talking on the phone someday but if it goes well and you go out someday expalin to him that he cant be a player and like the other girl to and make sure before you go out he likes you 100 percent and doesnt like her moer or even at all

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i had sex and i want to do it again... is that good (link)
heyy .. umm yea its a good thing but always use protection by using a condom

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ive known this gurl for 2 years now and ive meet all her friends and we bacame friends but lately we do nothing but get into fights... im going to teh same school as them and they wont leave me alone they say i ahev no friends and when i get to ej i will have no friends because i am a skank i dont kno what to do i try ignoring them but they just wont stop......plaez help!!! (link)
heyy ,, umm keep trying to ignore them thats the best thing to do or fight back do whatever is more you out of those two things also talk about ti with a school conseller

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I have a friend moving away to England during the summer (we currently live in America). I want to put together a mix CD for her. Are there any suggestions of songs I should use? Keep in mind that both me and her HATE rap and urbanish songs...

The songs should be like, about never forgetting her and having fun and stuff... I don't know, things that would remind you of someone who was moving away, if that made sence. Thank you! (link)
heyy .. umm there is this song called graduation by vitamin c and it says " as we go on we remember all the times we spent together and as our lives change come whatever we will still be friends forever " thats the chorus

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Can anyone tell me some good websites to get funny buddy icons for AIM? I've already tried iconator.com and badassbuddy.com, and couldn't find what I was looking for.
Any icon websites would be appreciated!
I rate 5's for any nice answers!!
Thanks!! (link)
heyy .. umm http.//www.mytheme.com and http.//www.ballericons.com are websites with funny icons

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My skin gets bitten a LOT during the summer...are there any home remedies or good sprays that you guys can suggest
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heyy .. umm try benadryl which will stop the itching and also there are these bracelets you can wear that dont make the mosquitos bite you they have them for adults and kids and always remember keep a fly swatter with you if you are going somewhere buggy like the woods or a camping trip

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Does anyone know how to make a layout/banner for lj or xanga? if so is it hard would you be able to show me? THANKS! (link)
heyy .. i used to know a website for that but i lost it but alls i did was go to http.//www.google.com and searh layouts and i clicked on and go it there

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you know how we all sometimes have quotes as our away message on AIM? well does anyone know any for BBQ's? instead of saying "oh outside having a BBQ" anyone know any BBQ quotes? thxxx (link)
heyy .. uhh i had a bbq yesterday and i put

im shaking and baking outside at my bbq
so leave a hott one for me
x`s and o`s
your name _*

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im 13 and a female. i have this friend who i like. i really dont kno him buti kno off him. he knos who i am and he told my best friend that he was scared that if i got to kno him i wouldnt like him. its like he is afraid i would break his heart but i just want to get to kno him and move on from there. what should i do? (link)
heyy .. just get to know him thats the only way you can decide if you truly like him or not and if thats the truth that you dont like him anymore you will need to tell him yourself and tell him nicely not harshly

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the other day my throat was really soar and now one of my tonsils is very swollen and has lindents like a golf ball...and i have a cough that is deep and i have a lot of mucas and a runny nose... could this be strep throat? (link)
heyy .. yes this could be strep throat you should go to the doctors to get this checked out i once haad strep throat and i went to have it checked out and all they do is stick a popsicle looking thing down your throat and take it right back out it doesnt even hurt that much

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My ex-BFF made up lies about things i said about my other friends. She keeps doing mean things to me! She's gotten on my last nerve and i dont want to b her friend anymore! The problem is that my parents are friends with her parents! I've tried talking to my parents about it but it doesnt work! they say it doesnt make a diffrence but it does! Is there anything else i can do??? (link)
heyy .. you cant pick and chose who your parents will be friends with but you can certainly pick and chose your friends so dont chose her as one because she seems like a bad choice what you could do is try talking to her about the things she does to you and if she doesnt stop shes not your friend anymore and tell your parents what she does to you and ask them to inform that girls parents about what she does to you

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I got a couple bleach spots on my FAVORITE pants. Not only are they my favorite pants, they're like the only ones I own that actually fit me and they weren't that cheap either! Is there anything I can do to them to either get the bleach spot to go away, or a way I can "ware" them so that it looks as though they were made that way? I don't like the whole staining in coffee or tea thing so that's completely out of the question. But is there anything else I can do to bring my pants back to life? =( Thanks. (link)
heyy .. i liked how you said " bring my pants back to life " lol that was funny but anyways there is really no way to remove the bleach from your pants the only thing to do is to add bleach spots in other areas of the pants to make it look like they were supposed to be there but dont put TOO MUCH bleach the only other thing to do is to buy a new pair

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