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I had a boyfriend and we were together for 9 months..we had sex and I don't think I was ready. I was one of those girls who wanted to stay a virgen until I was married...and now its gone....should I regret it? B/c I feel like I do, but I know there isn't anything I can do about it now...

never regret anything you do. it's not good. you may not like what you did but what happened already happened so just move on. life won't end and i kno u wanted to wait but it was probably just a spur of the moment thing. don't worry about it it'll b ok.
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Sorry the subject doesnt relate to this. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a week. I'm kinda getting sick and tired of him. Do I suck as a girlfriend?

No you don't suck as a girlfriend. maybe he's not fullfilling a part of you inside that wants excitement and adventure. If you really are getting bored with him you should talk to him and ask him y he's so shy around you. you guys should b comfortable around each other. hope i helped.
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this is gonna sound really bad...please no body be offinded...but i fell in love w/ this black guy and we dated for 6 months then i moved in w/ my aunt and uncle and they wont let me date him.i think its the most stupid thing ive ever heard in my whole damn life. what should i do.

y won't they let u see him? is it because he's black or is there another reason? you should talk to them about why you can't see him. that might help a little bit but other then that i can't really help you too much. if they have a problem with his skin color that sux. i'm part black myself and have dealt with many situations involving my ethnicity where i couldn't b friends with a boy cus i had black in me. if they don't like him because he is a bad ass or sumthing like that then tell them how you feel about him.
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well i was in gym one time and i fell off of the rope i was climbing. i hurt my arm really bad and my gym teacher told me to stretch it out. he didnt let me go to a nurse. when i got home i went to the emergency room because it hurt really bad. they x rayed it and turns out i fractured it. what should i do about my teacher?

you should go to the principal or to the district and tell them what happened. a teacher isn't supposed to prevent you from getting help when you kno something is wrong.

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