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Hey, my name's Kathleen, you can call me kata or kat. I set up this advice column because I think giving advice is a great way to help out people with their problems, and it's also a way to help myself with struggles as a grow more and more into the real world. So just know that if you have any problems, concerns, questions, or struggles, ask me and i'll be sure to help you out. I'll answer your questions as best and as quick as i possibly can!

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ok i have a boyfriend, the thing is im not supposed to yet, but i really really like him but i know if i told my parents my dad will like ground me forever and never let me date agian. ever. and my bf is going to a new school that they built, and everyone is either going or staying well im staying but he is going. so should i just wait till the school year starts to break up with him? because i know we will break up after that because long distance or just across town relationships dont ever last.
but, what should i do?

thanks!

i have a similar problem too, my parents don`t want me to have a boyfriend until i finish college!! don`t get your parents mixed up in this just yet!! if you really love this boy, and if you know in your heart that the whole long distance thing won`t work out, then maybe you should try talking to him first. see what he feels to, and if he you you are soon seeing eye to eye, do what feels right. Personally, i would break up with him, let him down gently, but don`t rush to do it. Love is really confusing, but like i said before, if he really loves you, he`ll understand.. ohh wait! i got a back-up answer, don`t break up with him, summer and vacations you guys could hang-out.. and well you live, what? just across town from him, well just try what feels right, if your not ready to let go, then do the summer and vacation thing, but if you really just wanna push this thing out of the way, break-up with him.

i hope my advice helps you!
xo0x- Kata

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i got my period for the first time thursday night and today is saturday.. it was like kinda heavy up until friday night..is that supposed to happen? cuz like now its like i didn't even have my period because its barely coming out..someone please help me and tell me if this is normal

well, from the way you describe your situation, it seems perfectly normal. The first time i got my period, it was sort of, an on-off thing. The first few days are strange because i guess, your body`s still developing everything.. if your still really scared about this, ask your mom, shes more experienced, and it`s someone that can talk to you without struggle.

i hope i helped you!
xo0x- Kata

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at my school we have to wear collared shirt, with only 2 buttons unbuttoned. we can wear jeans or skirts, but the skirts have to be longer than 2 inches above our knees. i like to dress originally, and cant stand the thought of going to school looking exactly like everyone else. also i live on an island, so whenever you buy a shirt someone else in your school probably bought it too... and with this collared shirt rule, like 9 or 10 people end up with the exact same shirt. does anyone have any suggestions for interesting ways to make my outfits less boring?

lets see.. if you wanna be a little more different then the rest, try buying something that looks different, but then possibly fix it up to make it feel more, you. Try to make your clothes look a little more, presentable, u know? Do something daring that no one could possibly think of. Go to a local store that may sell fabrics, and buttons and all that kind of stuff. Ask your mom to help you out and try changing something that everyone seemed to have, to something that fits your own personality. But don`t make it too, over the edge u know, because it still is part of the dress code. Just let your creativity run wild!!

hope i helped you!
xo0x- Kata

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