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Ok here goes... I am a 23 year old female. And it's this really hot guy that I like for about six years now... Actually we meet before and we exchanged numbers but at the time I really wasn't giving him any play... So time flys by and then later I was ready to talk to him but he just ignored everytime since I blew him off before.
So on face book I bumped into his profile... And I sent him a request but he didn't accept. And my felings instantly became hurt. So I mae up a facke profile using this really hot girl pictures. And I sent him a request he instantly tried to hit on her and... I played back with him.I told him that I was away in college and that I'll be coming back his way in like a month.
So for about three weeks and a half we chatted... On Im's facebook and even on the phone. And I know he really started to gain feelings for my fake profile. He even went as far as to saying he loved her. So when it was geeting close to the time when my fake profile was to see him I came out and told him.
I felt sad for him and bad that I decieved him like that. And over time I had started to gain feelings for him. I mean he really adored who I was playing to be and a part of me secretly hoped he'll like me the same.
So when I revealed who I was... He acted really shocked but he promised he wouldn't be mad at me. And he said he wanted to be friends. But he said that I had to perform oral sexual acts for him to forgive me. And I did two nights in a row.
And instantly his whole demeanor changed... Now he treats me like crap, he ignore most of my phone calls and he treats and talks to me like trash.
But when I was acting as if I was the fake profile he absolutely adored her. He would call everyday, ALL DAY and we would talk from sun up to sun down, and now I go days without hearing from him... And that isn't the worst part.
I've been really afraid lately like walking on egg shells. We stay in a small town and he's really popular. I mean everyone knows everyone. And the reason why I out up with alot from him because I'm scared on Facebook that he will annouce on his wall what I did and alot of means things about me... Because he's friends with some of my friends and family...
And it's like he have something hanging over my head that's why I performed the sexual acts in the first place... But at the same time I do have some feelings for him What in the world should I do? Please help me (link)
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I think that you've answered your own question, but don't see it.
"...but he promised he wouldn't be mad at me. And he said he wanted to be friends. But he said that I had to perform oral sexual acts for him to forgive me. And I did two nights in a row."
After that his attitude toward you changed, and you're perplexed by this?! At 23 years of age - really??
He clearly indicated that he wasn't interested in you, so you made up a fake Facebook profile to get him interested in someone who exists only as a picture.
When he finds out that it was you, this guy, (apparently with no moral compass), takes advantage of the situation and you to get some easy sex.
If you declined, nothing was lost because he doesn't care about you anyway. If you accepted, as you did, then Great! Oral sex AND THEN dump you.
It's far from right, but come on, is it unexpected? Are you really surprised? How did you think it was going to go: I'll forgive you for oral sex and then we'll be together forever and ever?!
If so, please post your address, I have some ocean-front property in Arizona for sale. (I'm just being sarcastic, DON'T post your mailing address!!)
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im 34 moved in with my mom to help my mother take care of my grandma my mom has lupus & my grandma is bed ridden. Everytime I leave the house my mom goes through my stuff or when i goto bed at night she steals my keys or has even used a coat hanger to unlock my car to snoop through it. and its getting really old i have two kids and this is showing them to disrespect me and they told me they are starting to hate their grandma when i confront her she hollers and screams & says im the bad parent. i am soooo agravated i could just scream. (link)
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You asked for opinions, here is mine:
It could be that you simply have a nosy, intrusive mother. Or it could be that you've given her reason to be concerned. You mention two children, but no husband... perhaps you can see where this is going.
Whatever the reasons behind it, it surely sounds as though you are past due for a heart-to-heart with your mom to discuss this. Make sure that you set aside enough quiet time that you can talk without interruption.
I wish you the best...
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i wanted to edit videos i made on my macbook with imovie, but my files are in .mpg so they cannot play. apple says i can buy the add on for $20 but i prefer to not pay.....(the add on is - QuickTime MPEG-2 Playback Component for Mac OS X)
is there anywhere i can get the download for free? i googled "QuickTime MPEG-2 Playback Component for Mac OS X free download" and i couldn't find on that was free because they all redirected me to the apple store page. please help! i need this for a school project! (link)
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I have a rarely used MAC laptop, and found that VLC has most common codecs built in, is FREE and will handle most anything:
http://www.videolan.org/
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okay so i have the blackberry curve, and everythings been fine with it. but all of a sudden it stopped letting me save pictures! like whether i take and save the picture or someone texts me one and i try to save it nothing shows up HELP!!! (link)
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There are a couple things that might have gone wrong, but the first is definitely to check your settings.
Assuming that you have an external card, (if you don't, there will be no choice), make sure that the configuration is correct.
If you DO have a card:
Menu -> Options -> Store Pictures -> On Media Card
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i just want some advise if what should i do get rent to own house or plan for a small business?what shoud i do first? pls advise me thanks! (link)
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Rent-to-Own terms are rarely attractive except to those with damaged credit, too young to HAVE credit or those lucky few who are working the deal with an individual simply looking to get out of the house with minimal fuss.
My opinion is that you should focus on building the business first, which will (hopefully) provide the means to purchase your first home in a normal contractual environment.
Whatever you decide, best of luck!
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i'm writing a paper on slang terms from a british novel we read. one word i found was "tussle" and when i look it up it says it means a fight. but the sentence in the book was along the lines of "apart from being alone for 3 years i had a drunken tussle with a guy here or there" and thats a girl speaking so i assumed it meant that she would hook-up with guys not fight them. any idea? any british people who know what it means? (link)
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I agree that it's not really a British term. Merriam-Webster had this to say:
1 : a physical contest or struggle : scuffle
2 : an intense argument, controversy, or struggle
...and, girls not getting drunk and fighting? Clearly you haven't seen any one of a half dozen TV shows. (Grin)
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I've been with my boyfriend for three years. We are absolutely in love with each other, but of course I've got a couple of complaints. He's not romantic, at all. I've asked him to take me on dates, or go do something romantic for a day, and eventually he may take me on a date (after me repeatedly asking and basically planning it). But he has never done anything like that without me asking. I can live with him not being romantic, but I think every girl dreams of a little romance in their relationship. How should I handle this? (link)
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This is coming from an old geezer of 54 - but I've been very happily married for almost 33 of those years.
If there is any ONE thing that I'd have to say is important in a relationship, it's COMMUNICATION!
It's critical that couples talk. Speaking from the male perspective, I can't fix what I don't know is broken.
I know that this is a bit crude, but if my wife never told me that she feels that my snapping her bra strap is demeaning, I might have continued doing something that I thought was just "in good fun."
Here's the point of all this: tell your guy what you've told us - he's the one that matters. He can't fix what he deosn't know is broken. If he cares about you, he'll go out of his way to make you happy.
Note: Some guys are simply not romantic by nature. I was blessed to have a father who was, and I learned by what I saw every day. Anybody, however, can LEARN!
Best regards...
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is there any way that i can get files off my broken computer? when i turn it on it just says some message and i've googled and a couple months ago and such and basically its not fixable, at least not without a pro. but the thing is that i dont want to fix it if its gonna loose my files. please help! if i need to add more info just say so! (link)
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If your harddrive(s) is good, if this is not a harddrive hardware failure, it's not a big deal to recover.
Bypassing solutions that could be employed to attempt repair of your operating system, let's jump ahead and focus on data recovery.
The easiest thing would be to remove your harddrive, and knowing what type it is, (IDE or SATA), get a USB or Firewire enclosure that will work with it. I have MACALLY enclosures and have found them to be excellent. There are many other good ones, though.
(Buy.com or Newegg.com are excellent online sources, and you might find enclosures on the shelves of Best Buy, Staples, or whatever other retail store might carry this sort of thing.)
With the drive in an enclosure, you then have a few choices. You can just hang on to it that way until you have a new PC, and hook it up to copy over your data to that new computer.
You can also hook up the enclosure to a host machine and either burn the data to DVDs, or copy it to a flash drive that's large enough to hold it all.
In the end, you'll have this spare drive in an enclosure that you can use for backups, additional storage, data transfer, etc.
I hope that helps!
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