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My mother and I can never get along. We don't agree on anything and we're always really bitchy toward each other. We fight about everything and anything. Frankly, it's to the point where I can't take it anymore. I'm not saying it's entirely her fault. Sometimes I feel that I have anger management issues, but I'm trying to better myself. I've just gotten so much hate built up towards her that everything she does angers me in some way. She acts like she's perfect and she is trying to control every aspect of my life. We have considered going to counseling, but I know my mom very well and she would never take a shrink's advice because she can never admitt she is wrong, like I can. I admitt that I have a short temper, but she won't admitt that she nags about EVERYTHING and always thinks she's right when it comes to decisions about MY OWN LIFE. How can I deal with her? I don't want to shun her from my life, but at this point, I just want to get away and never see her again because all these fights are destroying my life. Does anyone have the same problem? How can I deal with this?! (link)
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i know exactly how you feel and i have gone to counseling. i felt the same way about her not listening to the therapist so i was hesitant. you would be suprised how much counseling can help though. we still argue and fight but it is easier to deal with since counseling. i think counseling is beneficial to every teenager. even if there is no major problem in your life. the hardest thing in life is dealing with parents that you dont get along with but communication can ease so much. first step is telling her you think counseling is a good idea.
good luck :)
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