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How can I ask for Lindsay Lohan's haircut in words? I'll bring a picture to the salon but I want to explain as well what I want. At one point she had sideswept bangs and wavy hair? Also, how long does one's hair need to be for that? I want to get a semi-perm if that exists.. Thanks guys1 (link)
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If you have a good hairdresser, the picture will be enough.
Also you can tell her, I want side-swept bangs. You can't exactly cut your hair to be wavy, but you can ask him/her if they can recomend a good "scrunching" gel and also ask them to show you how to scrunch your hair to make it wavy.
That's what I and a bunch of my friends do.
It takes about two seconds in the morning and looks great!
Hope I helped!
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So i met this guy through a friend a while back, and from the start i had been kind of intrested in him. But i had been too shy to ask him if he was seeing anyone. Eventually, we started talking and hanging out more, and so now we're really good friends. And in that time, i have developed a huge crush on him. And unfortunately, learned that he has a girlfriend. The few people i've told about him (my best girlfriends) have said that we'd be perfect together, and i have to agree. It made me sad that hes taken, but i did learn however, that him and her will eventually break up by the end of the summer because shes going to another high school next year, and he dosen't want a long distance thing going on. I have come really close to telling him i like him, but never have because i'm too scared of what he'd think.
the thing that confuses me most though, is that he acts like he likes me when we're together, so i think maybe he does. (and my friends say he does) But how can he if he has a girlfriend?!
what should i do?? i'm so confused. (link)
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If you can, wait until closer to the end of the summer, that way it will be a lot simpler.
If you can't talk to him face-to-face, i find notes sometimes work. They made sound in-personal, but a hand-written, heartfelt note can sometimes be easier for the receiver, because they don't have to automaticlly respond.
Make sure you include that he doesn't have to answer right away, pressure scares guys.
Also, if he likes you, make sure you make it clear that you don't want to be with him until he's broken up with his girlfriend. relationships that start while one is still in another relationship ussually don't feel as right.
Hope I helped!
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so to make a LONG story short, i met a guy from the town next to me (same grade & age), we hit it off, hung out a few times and then suddenly we stopped talking for like a week (for no reason, we were just never around at the same time). now i have discovered that he is going for some girl in my school a yera younger then me. it sort of upset me at first, but then i was like "whatever" (it's not like we were dating so he can do what he wants). but anyways the thing that bugs me is that he seemed so nice, funny (and he's really cute) so i can't understand why someone who i thought was into me just suddenly changed his mind. i really don't have a lot of experience with boys (i'm 17 and have only had 1 boyfriend, which was in middle school, so that doesn't count). i guess i am just asking for a clue as to why he would have done this? he was really a nice person so i can't really figure it out. also, how do you meet guys over the summer. i mean like ithout saying go to camp, becuase i'm not. i only work, and it's just with 2 other girls. thanks! (link)
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Maybe he thought because you guys didn't talk that YOU weren't into HIM and he just didn't want to get hurt by confronting you. Maybe if you feel brave enough you could call him and just be like "hey. what's up?". see what happens and if you feel uncomfortable tell him you have to go eat dinner or something. don't try to take the other girl's place, just call as if you were casual friends.
Also you could meet guys over the summer through your gal friends. Ask them if they know any cute guys to set you up with. Also maybe if you have a town pool or a near-by beach, hang out there and see if you can meet someone.
Hope this helped!
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Hey Advicenators-
I was 10, and in the 5th grade. Then in January, some boy who I never knew noticed was in my dance/music class came up to me, did some freaky hand thing. I called him idiot, he gasped, and was left speechless. Since then, I have loved him.
After that, he did all sorts of things. If I was absent, the next day he would say "Oh, so you're here today." When our teacher told us to pair up with a boy, he asked me, and I said no and hid behind the wall, so I wouldn't dance with a boy. He asked me my name. I would never tell him. He found out, by grabbing my books. He walked me to class. I still never gave in to him. He got left back though, and me being in the top class, graduated.
I thought I wouldn't see him, since I went to Junior High (weird I know, we graduate in 5th grade instead of 6th). Our Junior High is only 3 blocks away from my elementary school. I saw him countless times on the bus. He went to sixth grade when I went to seventh. He always was looking at me, and I would look at him.
Now, I'm in 8th grade about to graduate in two days. After that, I don't have to come back to school, but I will. He has the same S.S. teacher as I did last year, so I'm gonna hang out with my teacher for the whole 4 more days of school. I'm gonna try to talk to that boy. Hopefully, he will still talk to me.
I still love this boy. I have loved him since 5th grade, for more than 3 years, and my love never dies, or wears off. Other boys I've liked come and go from my heart, but his spirit never leaves.
My questions:
1. Did this boy ever like me?
2. Do you think I have a chance with him?
3. If he does talk to me, how do I spill that I love him?
4. What do I do if he rejects my love?
Sorry that it's so long.
Please answer, and Alpha345 a.k.a. Ryan, please answer this question. You say you know what love is.
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i wish i had a story like that! thats so cute!
so anyway:
1. yes, he definetly liked you
2. yes, you have a chance as long as he's not messed up by the whole differant grade thing
3. You start up a casual conversation, if things are going well, and u can tell he remembers you and doesn't hate you now, u just slip...u no *laugh* i liked you in elementry school...by his reaction you might add...i still do
4. hopefully if you read his reaction well, you don't have to deal with this. if he still says no, then say oh..i hope we can still be friends!
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Alright, I'm in a sticky situation because my BEST FRIEND likes me. (guy) and I really like him...but he was my friend first and I'm thinking that if I date him then it'll ruin our friendship. I've talked to him about it and he says that it won't (which on one hand I do believe him bc he's not one of those guys that tells you what you want to hear unless it's true) I love spending time with him, in fact I've been over at his house more this summer than my own i think lol. I also like the fact that he has seen ALL of my quirkey moments and still likes me for them. Like I said, I just don't want to lose my best friend. That would devastate me. What do you think that I should do??
love
mo
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I was just in the same scenerio. One of my best friends and I liked each other. We went out for a few days, and I decided I wasnt ready for another relationship (I just got out of a serious one). He understood and although my friends told me he's still upset about it, things are perfectly fine with us. Its almost like it's never happened, except for those akward moments when people asked us why we broke up...haha...hope my story helps!
consider the guy!
the scenerio shouldn't change who you would date!
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Okay, so I've kinda liked this guy for a long time. We went out twice and now we're just " best friends." Well, he calls me his best friend but he also says " i love you!" and stuff. and I dont know..it's just weird & it makes me like him even more. What are some way to get him to like me? or to let him know I'm falling for him? but I don't want to make it to obvious..
thanks, I rate 5's (link)
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Look, maybe he just means i love you as a friend. Me and my friends say that all the time. Or maybe he's trying to hint he likes you. Maybe talk to some of his good friends to see what he thinks of you. You should have a mutual friend casually ask him one day who he likes. I did this with a guy I liked once, he actually told my friend he liked me! If you don't like any of these ideas you might just have to bite the bullet and tell him or have a close friend do it for you.
Theres nothing you can do to get him to like you except be yourself. Also, you might want to try slipping some flirting into your everyday conversations and see if he flirts back.
I hope this helped
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I'm 14/f...this year i think i lost all of my friends. I'm a very moody person and I'm always being dramatic about everything and it's not like i'm starving for attention because i'm not! Well I did something and now all of my friends wont talk to me because they think I'm a drama queen and that I'll just keep hurting them. I miss my friends a lot. They're all so happy and it makes me cry to know that I hurt them by just trying to talk to them. How do I fix this, or is it to late? Pls...and thanx
Broken Down (link)
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I need more information.
What did you do?
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how do you get guys to notice you more? i mean i'm not ugly but i dont think i'm "hott" so what should i do? i think i have a nice personality...but idk. (link)
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The best way for a girl with a great personality, but no so great looks to get guys wud b to go with the best friend approach.
Make some guy friends that you think u mite be interested in, once you become good friends you can cassually slip some flirting into it, and then who knows...
if you have a good personality, once a guy gets to know you, he wont only see the way you look
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well currently it's spring break && im feeling like its summer all over again. I'm not an only child, i have two older sisters who have lives an hour away from my house. I live with my mom and her boyfriend and my dad and his girlfriend live like 20 minutes away. ALL during summer, i'm home alone. A lot of people take advantage of the fact that their mom stays home or that they have sibling to live with. At least they have somehting to do, I'm home alone all summer long from 7-5 :(. I feel like its summer and this is one of the reasons i DONT like summer, im bored and lonely, which makes me sad and i get sad alot and i hate being sad, HELP. (link)
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Why don't you make plans?
Even if your mom doesn't want to drive you im sure your friends parents have cars
Go visit your sisters
Go shopping
DO what you love to do!
Anything to get your mind off it!
Also, it wouldn't hurt trying to talk to your parents! They probably dont know it upsets you so much! they mite b able to bend their hours a little or find ways to get you out of the house and having fun, if u just talk to them!
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im a girl...13 years old....and i really like this guy...and i have liked him for 3 years....and we just started talking again...and i thaught he liked me at first....and he told me....and i was happy...but now hes tallin me about makin out with this girl in gthe woods and goin out with her..and now i dont kno if we are just frends or if hes trying to make me jealous...and if he is trying to make me jealous...its working really well...what should i do????? (link)
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It sounds like hes trying to make you jealous because hes a guy and doesnt no n e other way to handle the situation.
Act like it doesnt bother you, and if you want to you could even try talking about other guys to him. Flirting around guys in front of guy that likes you will so make him jealous.
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Well, my ex boyfriend broke up with me a month ago and we were in love and we still like eachother ALOT but he has another girlfriend and i like this guy (Adam) but i feel like i am cheating on Ryan(my ex) because i like Adam but i still spend alot of time with Ryan and hang out with him and we act like we're going out but he has a girlfriend i like this guy named Adam but i dont know i feel like i am cheating on Ryan what should i do even though we're not going out!! I rate high! (link)
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Look if you guys still like each other, you have to talk about it! It's not fair to you to think your cheating on a guy who has a girlfriend! Its not fair to his girlfriend either! you need to talk about this with Ryan. If he wants to get back together, great, you just have to decide between him and adam, if not, then this guys a total jerk if he likes you but wont get back together with you, and you should go after adam in an attempt to get over him and move on (which u both shud, move on i mean). You need to tell Ryan, he has a girlfriend, so stop making it seem like you two are together. Unless you sort out what both of you are feeling, your never going to be able to move on.
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I really like this guy, my really good friend, who is taken but he doesn't know it. I got him something for Valentine's Day, but obviously, I haven't given it to him yet... I'm wondering if I still should. I'm giving things to other people (both ladies and guys). It's nothing big, I mean what I got for him. Maybe I shouldn't give it to him... or? I don't know... I really want to but it might seem a little wrong. Should I? Or I shouldn't? (link)
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If you are giving valentines to your other friends, this friend might feel left out if he doesnt get one. I think you should give him the valentine as a friend and deal with your feelings for him in another way.
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