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my name is sam and i'm 16 and i live in wisconsin. I'm a sophmore. I'm pretty good at advice, as i've had many problems of my own and helped many friends get through theirs. I hope to help out anyone who needs it!!
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I'm 16 years old and technically a virgin.

I have tried to sleep with my boyfriend but he keeps losing his erection and we used a condom each time we tried.

His penis has definitely come into contact with my vagina whilst unprotected but there was no penetration or attemt at it.

I don't know exactly when my period was due but it is definitely late.

I'm hoping that it's just exam stress or something (I finished my exams 10-06).

Please tell me I'm not pregnant.

What should I do? (link)
my advice is to take a pregnacy test, when you do this make sure you take more then one to be sure if you are or are not pregnant. I can't tell you that you aren't even if i was sure the exact date of your period.. i hope you get the answer you are looking for from the tests.. good luck!!


I'm 15 and single I live in KY , Morehead but Boys have been staring at me , and I feel like their scanning me, Plus I have been asked out and How do I know whos the write one, hey if u answer this one please go to my email address. Its on my Column -JayJay- but all me Jenipher
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The thing is your only 15, you don't know if any guy is the right one just by looking at them. And if you want to know if they are before you go out with them. Try to have a conversation with them and if you like them and they like you then go for it. And keep it mind, guys do look at girls, but make sure he looks at your face when your talking to him and you guys will have things to talk about if you go out ( common intrests ) .. hope it helped.

* sorry i couldn't find your column *


Alright well tonight I found out that my bestfriend had sex with my Ex boyfriend... he actually wasnt my boyfriend but i concider him one because we were "Together" But not offically! And I dont know what to do because the person that told me I swore to him i wouldnt tell! And this is the hardest thing that I have truely ever had to been threw! I dont know what to do! Please help me :-/ (link)
Maybe you could try to get it out of your friend without actually saying that you know, like casually bring it up. Or if there was a way you could keep this guy that told you name out of it so he wouldn't get into any trouble with anyone, then i suggest you do that. Talk to your friend if she confesses to having sex with your ex. But remember, technically he wasn't yours anymore, but she still should have been more respecful of you and your feelings. Keep in mind when your doing this, that you may be mad at your friend right now, but if she's a good friend and especially since she's your best friend, let her explain first and don't let your friendship be ruined over this. If you can try to calm down a little bit before you talk to her .. hope this helped at all


There*z this kid who ive gotten really close to when my best friend broke up with..but im afraid to ask him out because if i do and he says yes my friend will be mad at me but if he says no then i will be upset..but i cant just let him go becuase i really love him and i cant keep my mind off him..HELP!
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okay.. first of all if you friend was really your friend then she'll understand if you go out with this boy. And shes the one who broke up with him, so she may have some feelings left and you should respect that, don't go after him right away, wait for a little while to let her get over him. I dont think that you should try to sneak around about it or try to keep this from her. Tell her after a little time has passed that you want to be more then friends with this guy. Hopefully she understands, but keep this in mind, this guy is just a guy and ur bestfriend is so much more & don't let anything, especially a guy come between you guys.




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