and constantly compares you to another sibling, calls u stupid, fat, ugly (about every time she sees me)....like, everytime theres a TV ad for a skincare line or something she says, 'you should get that!' (cause i don't have such great skin) every 5 seconds ...she loves it.
always talking to me and staring at my acne and/or saying, "what is happening to your face?!". and shes always like, you look so ugly right now!
or she even tells me to shut up randomly, sometimes even wanting to get violent....or 'why don't you get your eyebrows done? (ur (my) sister) is so much prettier, why can't you look like her', etc.....'ur so dark (wtf?) and ugly'
she is bipolar, for real. i can't take it anymore.
she is so comforting to hug sometimes and talk to when I'm low or when my dad gives me stress (he is a resume/checklist, 'did u finish this, did you finish that'' type of dad!) not a great combo. But it's so weird because she gets into a nasty behavior randomly.
for example...i have concentration problems (add) and my dad helps me focus sometimes to do my schoolwork (i take medication, i'm 17)....and my mom imitates me and is like, "I'm so stupid, I'm going to just use my dad, he can do all my work for me, and mom cooks so I can use her too."
it's hard and really annoying because she digs into some of my deepest insecurities and just full on insults me. my sister doesn't talk to her anymore. but its harder for me because i still live in this house.
its lonely as ever, especially because as of now I don't have many friends since I moved and am going to a new school this fall. =/!
Hey, I'am Em231 if your mom is hurting you like
hitting you or something like that I think you
should call the child abuse center but only if she is hurting you ok.At schooltalk to you school counsler about your mom ok .
Ihope I helped.
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Yeah so Saturday these 3 kids pretty close to my age are coming to my neighbor's lakehouse Saturday. I never have people near my age so I'm excited! I'm 13 and the ages are 12, 14, and 15. =) We are going to go tubing and we use this huge 4 person tube so hopefully I'll be next to one of them. =) I wanna flirt but I can't let anyone really know I'm flirting because all of the other kids there are young so I don't want them knowing I'm flirting. What should I say to them? I don't want to come off as this annoyingly loud outgoing person, but not a shy freak either. I'll probably see them next week too. All tips and stuff would help. Also, should I dress a little slutty or no?
Hey, I'am Em231 what I say you should do is be
your self you can flirt but not to much ok.
Please don't dress slutty as I said dress like
you do ok .Her is a tip practice what you want to say before you say it I do that and it always
works for me ok.I hope I can help
em231.
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Well, I am 5''3 and 13 years old and all my mom can ever talk about is my weight. In summer 06, she told me that i looked to heavy. I was 122 lbs, so i lost 20 pounds. then she complained that I looked to skinny. Right now I am 107 and she keeps bugging me that I look too skinny. She wants me to gain 5 lbs, but I dont want to. I like the way I look right now but my mom doesn't respect that. Whenever I wear a swimsuit, all she can comment on is, "you look too skinny". It's really annoying and I wish she would just let me stay at the weight I feel right at. I just don't want to listen to her complain anymore. What do i do?
Hi, my name is em231 and I think I have an answer for you ok your mom isn't being paranoid she is
just worried about you ok. So I think you should
tell your mom this " mom, I like the way I'am
and I'am not changing ok . Try that ok I hope
It goes ok !
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