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i'm kaylaa and i'm an extra fatty, because this girl on advicenators says i am. :]

btw: i've had advicenators before , for about 2 yrs but i forgot my username and password :[

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This month i skipped my last week pills b.c i messed up and didnt even realize i did iit and just went right to the next set. is that really bad. am i still going to get my period. Am i going to get sick . . is it going to be alright? can someone please help?

you should deffently go to who ever you got them from , or wait a month and start off fresh. Make sure you are using other protection because the birth control may not be in effect since you stop taking them for a week.

xx kaylaa

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i have a pair of pin-stripe pants (like the fancier ones) but they aren't full length, they cut off at my knee.

what kind of shirt would look good with it?

please don't tell me to just go through my wardrobe trying things on- i've tried i'm looking at buying.

a dress shirt would look good :]]

xx kaylaa

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Well I am a 17 year old female and have never really done anything with a guy.. not even kissed


well i was laying down with a "friend" watching a movie today and he started fingering me.. how do i react? i just kinda layed there and put my hand on top of his

Should i do anything back? I am comfortable with whatever but tonight was the first night we were more than just friends and my parents were upstairs.
what should i do?

you dont have to make a noise or do anything else to let him know you like it because hes a boy he already knows this. Mabe lean over and give him a kiss, or touch his private too.

xx kaylaa

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wow this is the closest thing i've ever written to a journal haha sry its mad long..please help

Ok to begin with I am 17/m and there is a freshman girl I have liked since arouund christmas and um basically i cant tell if she likes me or not..at first i thought she did so i told my friends until one dumbass friend went and told her and since then she hasnt said anything on the subject and im too shy to ask her and the only place i see her is in drama class or right before school ends if she passes by my locker to go to her bus..

i have been making fun of her in class since the beginning of this year (2007) cause..i dunno im kinda scared i guess haha i've tried to talk to her before and she will usually just give me a look and say "hi" and i'll say "whats up" and she dosnt respond ..and sometimes she just ignores me..im thinking maybe she's a little mad cause i make fun of her almost every day. she says she doesnt care but i dunno..girls say they dont care for a lot of things :P

she's kind of shy in class but sometimes when i pass her in the hallways she'll be yelling her ass off and she has 231 friends on myspace (none are bands i checked) and after school she's always on her cellphone..and she plays 3 sports and also she's REALLY smart..like seriously she got all a's on her midterm, has a 101 average in our drama class, and she's like in all honors classes..insane

girls are so confusing haha
so i dunno..i guess my question is what is she thinking..does she like me? because i know that i can talk to her if i know she likes me but i dont want to embarass myself because ive embarassed myself more than once for this girl..i am seriously head over heels for this girl

thanks for reading

woww deffently a awkward situation:]
but no fear i think i might be able to help ya' out.

Ofcourse i don't know exactly if this girl likes you or not because there is no real way to know unless she tells you herself. But i do happen to be a girl , so therefore i might know a lil' bit.


Mabe she liked you in febuary and then changed her feelings for no reason OR because of what your friend did , which by the way was wrong of him/her. But theres a 80% chance she likes you , she is just as shy and scared to be embarrassed just as much as you are ever think of that? the question is whos going to have the guts to say something first? that i cannot tell you. Since you like this girl so much im thinking you should just simply write a note to her asking her, mabe put it in her locker:] [ girls like that kinda stuff ]. Or if you have real big balls just go up to her and ask her, there is no need to worry. I guaranty that if you dont worry so much about her rejecting you then most likely everything will work out 100% to your satisfaction. If she doesnt like you then you cant spend your time pouting because there is alot more girls out there. You shouldnt look for love, love should come to you. You should go by that because it is true.

hope i helped' :]]
if you need any other advice don't be afraid to ask.

xx kaylaa

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i dont like have a mustache, but i have some facil hair (im a girl btw) ik your not supposed to shave it b.c it will come back thicker or darker or whatever, bit if i pluck it, will it have the same effect as shaving it? or will it not grow back stronger or darker or whatever?

i'm the same way, if you get real close to my face you can see like a couple hairs beside my lip, but you have to get reaall close. I have been plucking mine and i havent seen a change in the thickness or them getting darker , but they do always come back. DO NOT SHAVE. it does make it worse for a fact. just take some time to pluck them when they come back. hope i helped!

xx kaylaa

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What are some signs that will allow me to tell whether I'm pregnant or not...I don't want to use the test thing.

I know about the no period thing so...anything else?

I really need this. I'm scared...Please help .

if you are pregnant you will show these signs:

.weight gain
.you can actually have your period while your pregnant my boyfriends sister had hers when she was
.your boobs will be sore
.it will show up on the ultrasound

you should really take a test. your parents dont even have to know. just go to walgreens , walmart, kmart or something like that , buy one the one i bought was around 10.00.

hope i helped

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There've been a lot of deaths among the student body of my school in the past two years (five last year and three this year.) A few of them were friends of mine. Lately, I've been getting more and more paranoid. I text my friends and call them almost constantly; I'm scared to let them out of my sight. I'm convinced that at any moment someone else will disappear for good. I don't have the time or money to go in for real counseling, and the counselors at my school haven't taken me seriously since they found out about my anxiety-related seizures (long story) so what else can I do to stop being so worried?

hi :]. I've had quite a bit of deaths in my life too. My dog died in March 2006. My grandpa just died of cancer. And my uncle that just moved in with us got shot in the neck while walking down the street in the Southside, Hes now paralized and is on a ventalator , which helps him breath. But now some of my family is talking about taking it off of him so he cant breath anymore , because hes telling us to shoot him again.

I am quite the person to talk about worrying to because i worry alot. I guess you could say i am kinda like you. When i start to worry , i think to myself " everything happens for a reason ". And that is what you should think about. I can almost assure you that there is no need to worry about someone else getting hurt, and if someone does then like i said there is a reason for it. There is really nothing you can do to prevent things from happening , its called life. You just have to let nature take its course. Worrying will just make things worse. I dont know if you believe in god , but if you do you should ask him to help you out. When your friends died , just know that you arent the only one that felt bad, think about their family. The couselors should take you serious though , because thats what they are there for. I guess theres not much i can help you with besides to say just try not to worry so much , if you worry theres a better chance of it happening beleive it or dont. hope i helped. sorry about your friends :[


- kaylaa

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I have windows XP
and my litle brother..
deleted picasa2 off of his windows account thing,
and it deleted it off mine.
But now i reinstalled it
but now all the pictures of his are in my picasa2 thing when i open it up,
and it wasnt like that before.
how do i get it to go awya?
anything i can like set for it to only do my documents.

just right click on the photos you want to delete ; click "delete from disk". hope i helped:]]

D and K its LOVE01

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My dog died something like 1 hour ago. It was very unexpected, and my whole family was crying. I on the other hand, felt no need to cry or anything, although I was close to him as well. Am I a walking time bomb, or is this just my grieving style? Thanks.

you know he had a good life , and most likely it hasn't hit you yet. i don't know if it will hit you and how bad it will be , but my dog died a while ago and i cryed alot. :]

sorry :[

-D and K its LOVE01

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