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(♥) Lynsey (♥)


::im 15
::im really hyper
::i dont have a bf
::i go to m.h.s
::i love soccer..its mi life
::im kinda short > 5'2
::and ya ill answer any ?'s u guys wanna know :)

advice

well my boyfriend is sweet and everything but he is too sweet , I mean he watches out for me and he said that I was the only one in the world for him , he even promised that he didnt like no other gurls like cheerleaders and movie stars , stuff like that, but I cant stand it any more! he calls to check on me at 4:00am! what do i do ?
I dont want to break his heart but I need some time alone, plz HELP!!!!

i think thats cute!!! but the 4 in the mornin thing eh....idk....just say sumthing lyke baby....i love u alot but when u call me at lyke 4 am im sleeping and stuff so can u plz just bak off a lil? just say u need ur space n stuff...but keep sayin that ur not tryin to b mean just say u wanna b honest

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I like this guy, but people say he's getto, and idk if thats good/bad? What does getto mean? And should I stop liking this guy, because all my friends say so. They that he's ugly, and I just don't get it. He's totally not! What should I do?

hey ghetto means like they a gangsta....lyke drugs n stuff most of the time, dress in certain clothes and talkin slang ALOT....thats mainly how sum of mai friends r and sum of them r ghetto mainly the guys and not to be racist but its mostly black ppl....no dont change ur opinon bout the guy bc wat ur friends think...theyr just jealous u kno wat u want so u shuld go for it...ur friends shouldnt control ur thoughts! im sure theyve had bfs who havnt been all that cute either...so bring that up b lyke well hes better lookin than ur ex! and i ddint say shit bout him! just say sumthin lyke that to shut them up tell them u dun care bc u lyke him n t hats all that maters

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ok so i really want a thong badly, but i have alot of problems
1. what if you have your period
2. my mom wont let me she thinks im not old enough yet, but im almost in high school
3. my friends tease me about it how i am not
wearing one
4. i dont want to sneak a thong in my bedroom i would feel so guilty
what should i do

1. tampons! just use those theyr way better instead of padz...
2.i waz 2 embarassed to ask mai mom but she neevr sed no so jsut go out n buy sum frum rave gurl, charlotte russe, jc pennys, etc...and keep them in a bag in ur closet n do ur own laundry to wash them
3. tell ur friends to shut ther mouth just because u dun hav a string goin up ur ass they shuldnt b makin fun of u
4. then ur not gonna get one...no wonder ur mom thinks ur too young...stop being so innocent!! buy one ,...its jsut a thong!

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alright, if it helps, im tara and im 14.

i've been cutting myself for some time now. always on my wrist and always in the same general area. whenever its a cold day i wear a jacket, and whenever its hot out i just wear bracelets. nobody has ever noticed or said anything. so last night i was laying in bed and i forgot to put on a jacket. my mom came in and saw my arm and said something like 'what's that?' .. i freaked out and pulled it away and said i was drawing.. and she asked why and i said i couldnt find any paper. she asked me if i wanted to talk about anything so i just yelled no and she left. i dont think she has even heard of people cutting themselves. so this morning i covered my wrist with coverup and a few braclets so that she'd think it really was drawings that had washed off. it was very akward and i tried to pretend nothing happened. all she said was 'is body art a new trend or something?' i dont know if she believes my excuse or not.. what do you guys think? and do you have any ideas of how i can cover these darn cuts up? mucho thanks in advance.

PS: oh and please dont tell me to stop cutting. im working on it, i promise. but its like cigarettes or drugs, you cant just stop. it takes time and effort.. =)

okay ive cut b4 too but onlyl yke once....2 me it just leaves embarassing scars....mines hav gone away tho....but just wear sweatbands around ur wrists n braclets and put neosporin on them....and as for stopping cutting my friend had a big cutting problem n wat her theripist told her to do was put rubberbands on ur wrists and whenever ur tempted to cut snap them reallie hard! bc its painful but doesnt leave scars n isnt reallie damaging to ur health...eventually..ull get better...also when ur tempted to cut jsut think..."man i dun want those scars all up my wrist" n find sumthing else to do or snap rubberbands or sumthing! good luck

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Ok, my boy friend is really nice and I've been waiting to talk to him for sometime now, but I haven't been able to see him and I feel as if I've been losing connection and I don't want to do that! Well, I have this really big cold sore, that I accidentally bit and it's really big! It's the size of my upper 1/2 of my thumb. Tomorrow is the only day I can see him this week but NO ONE can see me like this, let alone HIM!! What do I do?

put conelear on and buy sum abreva its expensive but it works!!!!1 u get it @ savons n stuff...its lyke 13$m for a lil bit but it works! tomrrow @ skool just keep on applying ti lyke ery 30mins ...itll go down...then b4 u c him but concelear or cover up on it...it shuld go down....also, dont pick at it and dont make it noticeable...if u go to him and its still there dont b lyke OMG I HAVE THIS HUGE THING ON MAI LIP DONT LOOK @ ME!!! just act confident lyke its not ther...and if he asks wat it is b lyke oh its a cold sore! lyke its nothing then change the subj

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my friend smokes. and shes 13. she knows i hate it but still does it anyway. and in front of me too! i reli want her to stop. she stoped for a little while n nows she starting! ive treid everything! i lectured her about ive told the pl seh gets them from to not giv her ne. but its not working! how can i convince her to stop. and dont sey let her live her life the way she wants!

thanks....

hey my ex bf used to smoke around me...when id be hangin out with him id just walk away n leave when hed smoke aruond me...hed b lyke o wats wrong? id just say i have asthma n i dun lyke when u smoke around me it makes me coff...when ur fiend lights one up just LEAVE! and if she askz where ur going just b lyke o i dun lyke smelling the smoke sry ill come back when ur done...n just kinda avoid her when she does it...around her tell her her clothes stink frum smoke n stuff....u could also search on the web n put a poster together with all the dangerous health risks and cancers related to smoking....buy her sum nicorette and say its a present! jsut tell her she needs to stop!

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So I have been hooking up with this guy for a few monthes... lets call him josh. So josh is really cute and i do like hooking up with him. the only problem is, he is dating my ex-best friend. I havent hooked up with him while they have been dating, but i really want too, and im sure i could hook up with him if i wanted too. I go to a differant school then my ex-best friend but the same school as josh, only he is a grade older. I really wanna hook up with him again, but i dont know if I should because of his current girlfriend. Please help me. I don't want to be a slut for doing this, i just have liked him way before my ex-best friend has ever known him! (she basically stole him from me too)thanks for the help... i really appreciate all your responses!
- Katherine

i kno u wanna hook up with him bc hes cute n erything n he goes out with ur EX best friend! its gr8 chance to get bak at her but just think...u wouldnt wanna be known as the slutty bf stealer...and this josh guy needs to learn if he wants u hell hav to dump his current gf...if u just keep letting him hook up with u he figures he can do watever with u and stuff...he obviously knows u lyke him but now its up to him to brake up wid his gurl for u if he lykes u that muc...dun b his lil makeout buddy....if u reallie lyke him ud want him to b seirous with u right? so just wait till hes single...dun hook up with him no mor till he is..

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ok last week i had a test coming up in math but i thought it was a quiz so i didn't study very much 9cause i got all the homework questions right) but during the test i didn't understand a lot of questions. i got my test back today and i got 25 out of 40! my parents are really spaztic and i know they will get really mad at me. i know u will say not to tell them but my homework is to get it signed by a parent! i dont know how i should tell them! please help me! i rate really well!

ok i do this all the time.....get lyke a paper u did reallie well on for ANY SUBJ lyke jealth or watever n it could even be notes! just make a line n b lyke OH mom dad cn u sign this? its our hw to get it signed....n hav them sign it on lined paper in pen...n then take that paper n then put it over ur math test n trace the signature REALLLLLLLLLLIE hard in pen on ur test and it will go thru then go and touch it up....it works but u mite wanna practice a lil furst!!

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ok, so heres the delio, i had been waitin for this guy to ask me out for 4 months, he had told a bunch of ppl he was gunna and we had been flirting and stuff, well he finally did on halloween, and i said yes , well 3 or 4 days into the relationship he gets in a fight with my friends, see hes christian and he believes no sex beofre marriage and no abortion and that kinda stuff which is what i believe too, but my friend dosnt, and so he called her a prostitue, well i stuck up for my friend, and was pretty much you dont have any right to call her that, you can tell her what she believes is wrong but thats crossing the line, and he got mad and is now ignoring me because i "took their side" over his, he has been ignoring me for the last 5 freakin days! and i have apolgized like 3 times, even though i feel like i did nothing wrong, and today i finally said we either need to fix this or break it off, because i dont want to be in a relationship where my boyfriend ignores me, even though i really really like him, but im sick of it, what should i do? should i try and work things out, or break it off with him?

that reallie sux....u shuld tell ur bf if hes gonna b a dick then u n eed to end it or else make up now....bc ur waisting time...UR apologgizing thats all u can do....tell him thats ur friend and u think she was right on this one....tell him he can tell her her beliefs r wrong but not to call her a prostitute!...thats wrong! thats ur friend....and if he doesnt forgive u tell him its not like u wer even involved in the fight u just stuk up for ur friend! and if he kant get over it then u needa end it....tell him to stop bein so goddamn sensitive and grow up!

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Ok theres a guy in school who I like, His name is Jake. Hes a grade younger than me. Well Jake rides my bus, everyone thinks he likes me, and I get hugs and he tells me he loves me. But when hes around his friends (most are mine as well) he doesn't act the same. And there are some days where he doesn't even talk to me in the hall. My question is : is it possible that sometimes he is in a bad mood, or are most guys like this? or does he just not like me.

by the way 14/f .... hes 14 as well but still in a grade below.

furst off...he doesnt love u...he obviously lykes u alot n THINKS he loves u...he cant love u if he dont talk to u alot and acts diff infront of his friends...plus u guys rnt goin out! if he doesnt talk to u just go up and talk to him who karez bout his friends! ask him whyhe iz acting diff just b lyke.....why r u actin lyke this wats wrong? n if he says nothing then b lyke watever its cuz ur friends r here huh? n just let hmi kno that he needs to stop

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hey, i need some advice! someone help me out here. I really like this guy...but I don't know how to tell him. I'm worried that he doesnt like me, what do i do to make it get through to him that i like him without making it straight forward and making a fool of myself?

compliment him be touchy feely with him call him hangout with him umm....just tell him u think he loks cute today n just b flirty around him n hopefully hell get it...if he flirts bak wid u b lyke so who do u lyke? n if he says no 1 b lyke o well i lyke some 1 but they dont kno it yet....or sumthin just flirt with him yannoe!

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ok well me and this guy are really close friends. i asked him who he liked and hes like no one actually. so im like ok. and then he said to me one night on the internet, promise that we wont fall for eachother again. and im like ok. but i feel like im getting vibes or w/e that he likes me. cuz we were playing bball(one on one) adn he touched my butt a couple of times.(on purpose? who knows) and then hes like u should go to my tourney. and i hope u go and all. so i went. and he kept "eyeing me" like every so often he would just quickly look at me.

so my question is..and i just imagining things..or do u think he likes me but he doesnt want to say..or something

o one more thing when i asked him who he likes he said something like...well i dont want to make a big deal about it, cuz i no its nothing...

signed,
really confused

he mite lyke u or think of u as his good friend....basketball even guys touch eachtohers butts when they get close so u cant reallie count that as flirting....and if u asked him n he sed no hes either jsut saying that bc he mite be scared of getting turned down or he doesnt wanna admit that he lykes u bc he told u not to fall for him agen...just always hug him n stuff and do things that u can get away with sayng "well friends do that right?" so IF he doesnt lyke u and ur putting the movez on him he wont b lyke HEY i thought we wer just frineds? u can lyke touch his armz alot n hug him and compliment him alot just b sweet!

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