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Gender: Male
Age: 22
Member Since: June 8, 2009
Answers: 85
Last Update: September 30, 2009
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prob. wrong categorie, idk..
15/f
basically, i hate myself.
i hate my life and everything about it therefor i hate myself.
i have absolutly NO real friends.
my family is so f**ked up its not even funny..
i mess up BAD with every nice, decent guy i meet, screw up every relationship i'm in..
my parents hate me, legit.
i dont wanna tell you my life story and all the reasons im like this.. and im not trying to be dramatic, i seriously do have a bad life. the only thing i can think good of about me is that i'm pretty. but it doesnt even matter because people dont think i'm pretty when they look at me, they think im a miserable, mental, bitch.
i dont mean to dump all this on you, but i clearly have some depression issues.. that have been diagnosed by my therapist.. and my mom 'doesnt believe in depression medicine' so i cant even take a friken prozac to make me happy. >:o
ive even tried turning to religion..
and i have no one to talk to..
idk what to do with myself anymore..
the other day i ran away from the school and went missing for 2 days.. clearly im going insane and need help. i have counceling.. doesnt work..
anyone know how i can make myself happy? im sick of being like this and crying 247.. someone be my friend..? (link)
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There's been some good advice already given, just thought I'd chip in my two cents about medication.
Though the media may make it seem as if doctors who prescribe psychiatric medications for people under the age of 18 are whackjobs who are desperate for money from pharmaceutical companies, doctors generally will only prescribe these drugs if they think that the benefits outweigh the risks. If counseling hasn't done anything to alleviate your symptoms then perhaps your doctors are onto something.
That being said, you could also try seeing another therapist. Your therapist may be a good fit for some of his/her other clients, but we're all different people with different needs.
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IM M/17 the name is adam, as far as finding a girl and holding on to a solid realtionship my skills are lacking. I finally found the right girl I guess people think of it as the girl guys live there life to find. There's only one problem about 2 months ago she ended a 2 year realtionship for good. Her friends keep telling me that all she needs is more time and a good friend. I know that I should wait and respect the time she needs, but I'm afraid that the time will have her grow closer to me as a friend rather than a boyfriend, what should I do? (link)
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I realize that this isn't the answer that you want to hear, but I'll throw it on the table anyways.
You're 17 years old, and you have decades ahead of you to find the right person. Consider how many people there are on this planet, then consider the odds that the girl you're talking about is the one that you absolutely have to be with. I had my troubles with finding a girlfriend when I was 17, but looking back I realized that I wasn't ready for one at the time. When you're ready for a relationship, you'll know. And once you're ready, you'll be able to find the right person.
So don't worry about this particular girl: you'll meet plenty more in your life that you'll think you can't live without before you find the right one.
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i am really depressed. i wanna cut or be anorexic or commit suicide something. i just want the pain to go away. things have gone really wrong with my friends i had a bad experience at my old school and now at my new school i feel like im having a bad experience. and things with my mom are not so great we dont have a great relationship but she loves me and i love her. its just we always get in fight and start yelling at eachother. i really dont know what to do? help please (link)
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I'll agree with the last answer and suggest that you seek some kind of professional help, given the options that you're considering for getting out of your situation. Try to get in with your school guidance counselor to talk about how you feel. You'll be glad you did.
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im fat. advice? i mean like i know i should exercise and eat healthy and all that jazz but any like fun ideas for exercise or something idk im like 5'3 and i weigh like 140 pds or something like that.. not exactly healthy.. (link)
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Your BMI is slightly at the high end of the normal range (google BMI for a calculator for your own reference), but certainly nothing to worry too much about. If you really think that you need to lose the weight for health reasons, then you could always do some exercising (walk for 30-45 minutes every other day, for example) and a cut your calorie intake by a couple hundred calories a day. The odds are that you're not as fat as you think you are.
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I gave my boyfriend a blowjob and swallowed...then shortly after he left I used my spit to lubricate myself when materbating. Can I get pregnant ? (link)
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Not a chance. For future reference, the odds of you getting pregnant from anything other than vaginal sex without any sort of birth control are slim to none.
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