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Age: 20
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People say revenge is never the answer, and you might be one of them, but I don't care. So don't scold me or try to reason with me just answer my question and get over it. I want revenge on him. There is this boy ((we'll call him Dave)) and he broke my heart. I know we are young and I am not going to try and say we are in love but I think its stupid that people say you can't get your heart broken even though they know they felt this exact pain at your age. Anyway, if Dave thinks he can just mess around with my emotions, tell me he likes but that he's "not interested in dating" but still expect me to treat him like a boyfriend, he's wrong. If he thinks he can lead me on when he gets bored but then ignore me whenever he feels like it, he's wrong. Its not like he flirts with other girl's (I'm really the only girl he ever talks to) and he's not a player AT ALL I think he just gets a laugh out of messing with me and it makes me so mad! I still like him SO MUCH (i know i know!! But i cant control who i like!!) but I just want to get back at him. It hurts me... A lot and I know its absolutely horrible, but I want to hurt him too. I don't care if he is "confused with his feelings about me" or any other bull crap he gives, he can't mess with me like that!! Jelousy could do something but I need MORE ideas. So please, skip the criticism and sense, and just help me. How can I get revenge??

Alrigth well, I have been in this postion before and I know how you feel. What I did is ignore him. Is is as easy as that. Ignore him, do your makeup and look amazing if you know you will be around him. You have to make him think you don't care about him, almost like you played him. Trust me you don't want to be with someone that like so anyways.... he will start calling you, paying more attention to you and blow him off. Pretend he isn't there. It will kill him!! He will get so mad and then be hurt! Trust me!

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My boyfriend likes when the girl is on top and he likes when they take charge and are really aggressive....well..i'm shy, and quiet. I've thought about pushing him onto the bed, holding him down and having my way with him but when it comes down to it and we're actually together..i dont know, i just dont do it. I'm not against it, I want to be more aggressive but I don't know how.

Ok honestly that is how it was with my husband and I. You have to mix it up. I have found that a lot of foreplay helps me get more into the mood and want to be aggresive. So try more foreplaing. Hope this helps.

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