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alright so i take back the fact that im done with this advice column. but im just letting everyone one here know that i do have a life, and advicenators is not it. however, im here to help. i just wont be on every single day.

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I like one of my guy friends a lot! and a few days ago we went to WonderLand with our other friends. Well the whole time we were their he ignored me and turned away when i talked to him. Even though in November he liked me a whole lot and a month ago he reminded me. While we were there he was also very close to one of my friends. Maybe it was because she enjoys roller coasters and i don't? I tried, but im just not a roller coaster person, and my never be.

Hey, well im going to be straight forward with you, hes not interested in you at all. Especially if hes showing interest in a different girl right in front of you. No, hes not playing hard to get. He just doesnt have feelings for you anymore. If he really liked you for you, roller coasters wouldnt matter.

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my bikini hair is pretty bad and when i shave it you can still see it and it sooo embarassing .. i used niar and it kinda works but it makes red bumps

please give me advice
i dont know what to do anymore


p.s [ dont say waxing my mom absolutly will not let me do it ..( she burned her skin really badly once from it and had to go to the hospital =(]

Hey, well theres nothing else to do except shave it, and thats better than just leaving it right? Well i think that your just not shaving it correctly. Get the right razor and the right shaving cream. Get a venus razor and skintimate babysoft shaving cream. They work wonders =].

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This isn't so much advice but more of a request.

I have been wondering the name and artist of this song for a while now and I finally figured it out.

The song is Wedding Dress by Will.

Now FINDING this song is another story..I can't download it anywhere. I've tried Ares, LimeWire, ect.. but nothing.

Could anyone send it to me? My email is amasing_fun@hotmail.com.

Thanks again =]

Hey, well i found it!

Its on http://musicplaylist.net

http://www.projectplaylist.com/musicsearch?searchfor=Wedding+Dress+Wil&search=search

On that page! =]

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I was just wondering about what the style today is for guys for body hair i.e. chest hair, happy trails, leg hair, facial hair and stuff like that.

Hey, well its all about preferance. There is only shaving and waxing thats it, unless you want to do lazer hair removal. Most girls like when a guy shaves his pubic hairs, but dont shave for girls, only do it for you. Some guys go completely hairless and for some girls thats a big turn on, but for other girls, its a turn off. It goes the same for a hairy guy. Its just what you like better because no matter what, there will be girls/people that love it and hate it.

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ok well my period is late, but i havent had sex or nuthin, what can cause late periods????

thx in advance

Hey, well girls periods are irregular for a long time. Its normal. Dont see a doctor unless you miss it for 3-4 months. Also stress can cause periods to miss or to be late too.

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ok well i havent had sex, or anything close to that. i havent even made out with a guy!!! but my period is late, and i dunno what to do. should i go to the doctor?? is this normal??? HELP MEEE

thx in advance!!!

Hey, no, dont go to the doctor. Its perfectly normal to miss periods and/or have late periods. The reason for this is because girls periods are irregular for a long time. The only time that you should go to the doctor is if you miss you period for more than 3-4 months.

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Can girls play football, or is that just a guy thing?

Hey, Yes, girls can! They can do ANYTHING that guys can do, and most of the time even better! Never forget that! =]

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o.k thers this guy that goes to my school and i kinda jus met him last year!well he works at the school durin summer with the janitors and i tink he lkes me! i meen ive been workin on the lokers at school for lke the past two weeks and hes been kinda flirty! well 2day he was really flirty! i meen evry tme he passed me he would cme up 2me and lke mess with me! he would lke pull my chair(it was on wheels!) and then he cme ova 2me and pretended 2 put soda on me and the he fliked water at me then when i was sittin down and he thought i didnt see him he threw a sock at me!it missed though!o yeah and monday i was nocken on the middle school door cus i couldnt get in and he cme to let me in and right before he opened the door he 'checked me out'. i meen he lke looked at me lke guys would look at grls if they thought there were sexy or sumtin!i think he mouthed god d@#$ but im not sure. i was wearin a t-shirt that hugged my curves with a jean skirt.it was a really cute outfit! i looked really 'grly'.but i was lke o my jeeze did he jus giv me 'the look'!well i think he lkes me but im still not sure. i meen alot of the signs r there but i cud b wrong!i lke him and hes beyond cool but then again hes a up cumin senior and i have a bf(its nothin serious+im not gonna cheat on him) and hes 18 and im an up cumin 9th grader!i tink if he does lke me i kinda wanna go wit him wen school starts! do u tink that would b bad!?!is it legal? i dont know wut 2do ir say!!!!HELP

Hey, well i think that he definately does like you, but be careful. Older guys tend to use younger girls just to get some and for there bodys. You have to make sure that his intentions are good before you start anything with him. Whether its legal or not really depends on the state, but usually, its legal as long as you dont have sex/do sexual things with him. Also about your current boyfriend, if you guys have a strong relationship/feelings for each other, id just stick with him. Theres no risks there and you know that it will work out. With the older guy, it might not and you might loose him and your old boyfriend. Think about it, would you have questioned breaking up with your boyfriend if you didnt meet this older guy? Think it over. I know he may seem like God now and the coolest thing ever, but sometimes its best to stick with what youve got.

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Well wen i was 10 i was raped and all of my friends know well one of my friends told me that she wants 2 get raped(she's a virgin)just so she doesn't have 2 be the only virgin in our cliqué and so she stays on her myspace talking 2 perves im scared 4 her she says on monday she is going 2 meet somebody and im scared she is going 2 get raped and that the person is going 2 kill her so i need advice fast before i might not ever see her again

Hey, well you need to invite her over your house, sit her down, and have a nice big long talk with her. Explain to her that getting raped is NOTHING like having sex and that its often painful when forced on you. Tell her thats its not a pleasant experience and that when you loose your virginity, its suppose to be something special and actual real sex that isnt forced on you. Let her know that bad things sometimes happen when girls get raped, like they could kill you after there done using you. Explain to her that you love her & that your just looking out for her. Also explain to her about the STDS that she could pick up from her rapist and also the risk of getting pregnant. There are a lot of bad things that could come out of getting raped and she needs to know them. Maybe write her a little note/letter with what i just told you on it and give it to her when she comes over, than talk about it. Good luck and i really hope that she listens.

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Anyone know like good luck things
like theres
-If you find money on the floor
You know something like that
anyone know any goodlucks
if you get me :S

Hey, well if you find a penny on the ground, you make a wish and put it in your shoe. Also you tie a bracelet on your ankle & make a wish, when it falls off, the wish comes true. Make wishes at 11:11.

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I'm having a hard time finding the right hair color because whenever I dye it, it doesn't turn out the way that I want it to look like. I went to a hair salon several times hoping to dye my hair into a light brown but it always looks orange. so now I have a hard time deciding what to do with my hair. any suggestions?

Hey, well honestly, the thing that will look the best on you is dark brown or black hair. Thats probably what you had before, but it works the best for asians. If you want to play it up a little, try carmel highlights. Get it done at the place, dont do it yourself. Also dont do too many highlights, limit yourself, less is more. =]

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16f 5'3 and around 125 lbs-
is that over wieght?
yeah i know im huge! and i really want to lose wieght the healthy way ive been anorexic and belumic and it sucked so
:how uch weight to can i lose a week to stay healthy
:what exersises(SP) can i do in the pool to help me lose weight in my stmoach and legs besides doing laps
:ive been doing a lot of yoga and i was wondering dose that hep you lose wieght becuse if not i think ill switch to pilates
:could i lose 10-15lbs by the end of july becuse thats when im going on vacation
:and any tips for staying healthy while on vacation
thanks

Hey, well im not good on the whole excersizing, diets, and eating healthy thing, so im just here to offer you a little piece of knowledge. The last time that i was at the doctors he told me about this weight/height thing. He said that at 5`0 your perfect weight is 100 pounds. Also he told me that everytime you go up in height, you add 5 pounds to achieve the perfect weight for that height. So, since your 5`3, your perfect weight is 115 pounds.

5`0 = 100
5`1 = 105
5`2 = 110
5`3 = 115

catch my drift?

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ok well i had sex one week and a day ago and well i have felt sick ever since and i don't think i would beable to see signs of pregnancy yet so i don't think thats it

Hey, well when are you feeling sick? If its in the morning, thats usually morning sickness. But like you said, its only been about a week so signs shouldnt be that obvious yet. I would take a pregnanncy test just to make sure. Also pregnancys sometimes cant be detected right away, so even if the results are negative, take a second one in a week or two. Good luck =].

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oh my god. i'm gonna freak. you see, my cousin kristina from slovenia is coming to america for the first time on july 11. i was cool with it, but she's staying for an entire month. >:o
me and my friend jenna made serious plans with my brother and dad to go to 6 flags. now i cant go with jenna, i have to go with kristina. and kristina gets so sick. she ate a banana and through up during a car ride to the beach. i think im gonna go nuts. me and jenna were planning 6 flags for weeks, and my mom is being annoying about how kristina is my cousin and she matters more than jenna. i was like wtf, i made plans with jenna way before kristina was coming. m gonna cry, i dont even want to go to 6 flags with her, and im pissed because shes staying for so long. there's this guy i like and i wanted to video with him when i got my macbook and now i cannot do that with her here. :'(
im so pissed at my mom, i cant believe she would make me cancel plans because of her stupid idea.
how am i supposed to let jenna come to 6 flags?
how am i gonna hang out with friends when kristina is here. :(

Hey, well i agree that the whole world doesnt stop when your cousin comes to america. Yes, its a big deal, but you should have been told that she was coming so you wouldnt have to cancell a bunch of plans. You should still continue with your life, but include her in it. Hopefully by the end of the month, she will have some new friends.

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okay so im a 16/f and my school is going to start on august 27th. and im going to be a junior. okay so at my school i get made fun of alot for being skinny and because i have alot of hair on my arms, legs, armpits. i mean its not like i don't shave or anything. i wax it but it grows back. and because i have alot of hair and im soo skinny thats why alot of people don't like me. its becuase i don't fit in. but i don't care about fiting in, i just want to have a group of friends to hang out with. i want to go back to school knowing that i have friends. but alot of people at my school are fake, do drugs/sex. and all that stuff. i mean how do i make friends when no one even wants to talk to me because im the school loser?

Hey, well im sure that theres other "losers" in your school besides you. Why not try to get to know them. You said you dont care about fitting in/being popular, so hanging out with some dorks shouldnt be a problem for you. I give you props for not changing who you are because of what people think (shaving etc.)!

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Can someone tell me how to do my hair like this? How to do the hair dye part, I want a highlight like her's, can you tell me how? (the pink part)



http://www.redditchadvertiser.co.uk/_images/db/50/40/web19reavril.504061.full.jpg

Hey, well i dyed my hair pink before, but it was just the tips of my hair. I had dark brown hair (its now dyed black, as you can see i love dying my hair =]), and since my hair was SO dark and the pink wouldnt show up good, i had to get it dyed bleach blonde first. After the bleach blonde, then i got the pink. Its actually a hard and long process (i was at the salon for 3 hours) that if you mess up, it would look retarded. I wouldnt recommend doing it yourself, i would go to a salon. But, since you only want a strip of pink on the side, it would be easier. I still recommend going to the salon.

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Thanks for responding. Why didn't you get it done?
its really hard for me to do anything with my hair, its so blah, have any ideas?

im going to a wedding soon and i want my hair to be curly do you think it will last? do i have to tell the salon person that my hair is chemically straight?

Hey, well i didnt end up getting it done because i decided that there was other things that were more important to me that i wanted to do with my money. Your hair will tend to be blah since your hair is chemically straightened, but hey, thats what you paid for. Straight hair tends to get blah to most people quickly, thats why people scrunch/curl there hair. As for if the curls will last, im not sure because it depends on a lot of things. It depends on how good your hair was done and how long ago that you had it done. I would probably just go back to the salon and explain to them that you like what they did, but you dont think that it will be proper for the occasion, so therefore you want to try some curls. If its not the same salon, yes, do tell them that your hair in chemically straightened. Since im not sure if it will last and the salon cant be 100% sure that it will, test it out first. What i mean is pretend its time to get your hair done for the wedding and test it out and see if it lasts, because you wouldnt want a gross mix of straight hair and curls for the wedding, would you? If it works, great your golden. If not, ask the salon what they can do.

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everytime i use veet on my bikini area, i get bumps so what do i do to prevent them? thank youu

Hey, well i dont suggest using that. I would use a venus razor and Skintimate Babysoft chaving cream. They work wonders.

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anyone know places in TN that hire at 14? or 15

Hey, well i know that these stores on the list ill provide hire at 14/15. Im not sure if theres any near you, but they hire.

-FYE arcade.

-Castle creek adventure golf course.

-Grocery stores.

Theres always babysitting, dog walking, and paper routes.

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15 f
ok so i really need money. my parents dont give me allowence and its just so hard to go shopping with my friends and not have enough money to get what i want. so i know i can babysit, watch a house for a neighbor while they are on vacatiuon, walk dogs and stuff like that. but how do i ask for those jobs. like i have asked some of the neighbors that i know and they said they dont need anyone right now. so what should i do? i really need the money. like how do i let anyone else know that i am whilling to take care of there dogs and things like that? help? thanks!!

Hey, i agree with the other advicenators. Also grocery stores sometimes high at the age of of 14/15. Also i know that plaster fun time does, FYE does, and also castle creek golfing does. Im not sure if you have any of those around your area is worth the shot.

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